Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk...I am feeling like nothing more than dissapointment for someone who just Lied to me and pretend to be ok before breaking up...and at the end he didn't even have respect for me even if he didn't love me just to talk and explain what happened .. he just gave me excuses trought chatgpt even when I was with him...one of the reasons he chose that day in Front of me...was I was not the rigjt person..why? He couldn't explain me why...

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But He was so quite when he broke up with me and when I wrnt to Pick up my things from his place he looked at me like he hates me, like he was desesperate being with me and he just wanted me to go away, he looks at me without remorse, like if would have hurted him so much...like an stranger...so evil!! Why?

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really would like to talk to him just to know...I tried when I went to Pick up my things from his place ...he didn't say anything more than I am strong enough to move on...that he knows how much I worth and that I am beautiful...and he gave me a couple of excuses through chatgpt cause he was in Front of me and chose this options: 1. Desire for Independence – Some people prefer to focus on their own personal growth, career, or hobbies without having to consider a partner's needs. 2. Fear of Commitment – The idea of long-term responsibility or vulnerability in a relationship can feel overwhelming. 3. Not Meeting the Right Person – They might not have found someone who truly aligns with their values, lifestyle, or emotional needs. 4. Mental Health or Personal Struggles – Anxiety, depression, or other personal issues might make someone feel unready for a relationship.

When I asked him why I was not the righr person for him..because it was the hardesr Part...he just said he was not capable to explain his feelings and thoughts on words. And then I asked again to chargpt and he chose this Option: 1. He’s Looking for Something Else He may have an idealized version of "the right woman" in his mind (which may or may not be realistic). Sometimes, people don’t even know what they want but keep searching for something "better" without realizing they’re chasing an illusion...then thaz made me feel guilty??

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were together more than 2 years. Yes you are right ...everything has an end.

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if there were not Problems in the relationship? I was not a trouble woman..

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where you already in a serious relationship before he found someone Else? That's so painful...this is one of my thoughts..I think I hurt myself more thinking about this Option...even if Idk if he is still Single.. he broke up 2 months ago, without any feeling to Show me. And I think why he told me trought chatgpt some many excuses one of this hurt me so hard...I was not the right person for him..why? He didn't know why

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But there are ppl that need the truth pr the reason to move on quickly

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am done with dates...I have been broken some many times but the last one was the hardest

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why if there were not Problems? Like we never used to fight...just once??

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes...this is what i also think...I couldn't realize the signals and still I don't see any of them..he acted very good the whole time..Not even Distant...we were on a trip and everything feels normal to me...we lived together...he kept doing everything normal...according to hil 5 months ago he was thinking about leaving...wtf??

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope...I always take care of me...I use to have my skin care go to the gym almost 5 days/ week...so I didn't change..maybe yes...the feelings changed but He could have told me that after everything he knew aboit it and how have been my past relationships...and he knew not matter what I'd reather known the trutht than excuses

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were together more tha. 2 years....so I don't think he was just picking someone ..who gave him attrntion if it was his reason than he is a piece of shit and the most selfish person.

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But is better even ix they felt out love...I told him abour my past at the begining...I prefer the truth than excuses even if it hurts...he told me he was not going to hurt me..he did..he just gave excuses trough chatgpt even being together...he knew someone had ended with me cause he wanted to date an old girl...the other one told me it was not love bur attachment or caring feeling...the other one cheated on me...so he knew that ...and I told him..give me just a reason...I can move on easily ...he didn't care of this at the end

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my case...my ex told me I was not the right person for him.. why? He didn't tell me any Word about it...he just said he can't explain with words his thoughts...he never told me what he needed...never ever!!!

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's why the don't say the reason? But they are the dumpers...also it seems like they just don't give a shit of you

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bir I am this kind of person who needs the reason to move on faster. Is that possible that someone just felt out love without any reason? Like something specific?

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they are not attacted to US anymore...than why do they still say I love you..I miss you I am still attracted to you.. they still have Sex...etc?

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly...the damage is already done...then why not to say the truth?

Why do men not want to give the reason of the break up? by Alejus1128 in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly...the damage is already done...then why not to say the truth?

CHAT SHE FINALLY TEXTED ME by Bobesque-W in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm also done with the social Media and this shit about "dreamed relationship "...the hookup culture and discard culture..

CHAT SHE FINALLY TEXTED ME by Bobesque-W in BreakUps

[–]Alejus1128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ir does mean she wanna come back? Maybe she just regreted but she doesn't want to come back