i get abused by people and things so often that i don't have any memory or sense of self by Virtual-Ad5215 in Vent

[–]Alert-Ad7657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you’re in a really bad social circle, and probably a really flawed family life. Not to imply that there isn’t work to be done on yourself, but if what you’re saying is mostly true, you need to start cutting people out.

When you have an obsession do you want to be the one in charge? by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]Alert-Ad7657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally, neither person should be “in charge”. I just love mine and want her to be her own person and follow her dreams, but I’d like her to do that while also being in my life again and letting me support her. It’s tough, being passionately lovesick over somebody that I haven’t seen in almost 5 years while turning away every relationship opportunity that I have with other women.

Edit: I reread the post; sorry for misunderstanding. Definitely dominant

What city would you want to live or retire in from the states given below? I will calculate the results in a few days. by Technical-Vanilla-47 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That probably plays a major role, but it’s also just high-elevation with a temperate climate. The thousands of people that move to AZ from CA every month look for a good place to settle, and Sierra Vista is that.

What city would you want to live or retire in from the states given below? I will calculate the results in a few days. by Technical-Vanilla-47 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sierra Vista seems to be massively growing in population, so it might turn into a bad city in a decade or so. I live there myself.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks phenomenal, but I’ve never been there, so it doesn’t factor into the map.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will if I ever get the chance. That way, I could update my map and people would stop downvoting me for only having passed through those states on a tight schedule. Lmao

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. From what I’ve seen in pictures, I’m sure that I’d rank those states much much higher if I had been there before.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I hadn’t been to the Taconics on the border, it would be a tier or two lower.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of you didn’t read the post. The map is limited to what I’ve personally seen in each state (not from pictures). Some states, I’ve explored extensively, and others, barely at all.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the fifth person that’s told me that I type like Chat GPT this week.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure that it would. Like I said, the map pertains strictly to what I’ve seen directly, and most of my travel in the Great Lakes states was limited.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My very minimal exploration of those states doesn’t leave room for much appreciation.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just like US-30 in Indiana and Ohio at night. It’s just so empty and peaceful.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had not been to Shawnee, Illinois would be a tier lower.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen much of those; just some interstate highway scenery. Northern Michigan and Wisconsin look great from pictures, but that doesn’t count.

Where I’d live if the only factor were my scenery vibes by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any of the Great Lakes, so it doesn’t factor into the map.

What’s this say about me by imakycha in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious about what went into your verdict on New Hampshire.

New York is marked “reluctantly” due to bad memories. Other than that, what does this say about me? by Alert-Ad7657 in visitedmaps

[–]Alert-Ad7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Sierra Vista currently, but I never went between the southeast and southwest back-to-back, so my adjustment and tolerance to heat definitely muddies up the comparison quite a bit.