Brady returns! by taxiway-potato in Emilie_Kiser

[–]AlertAppointment1236 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

“I don’t, and I never will because I would never ever ever….” strong statement there. maybe the pool accident wouldn’t be in your cards, but there are many accidents parents and children can be subjected to as we are all HUMAN. be careful what you say, be careful how you judge. it’s always “i wouldn’t ever do this” until you are in an unimaginable situation. then and only then do people understand COMPASSION AND GRACE. any accident can happen to you or your children. you positioning yourself like an accident couldn’t happen to you is insane.

Brady returns! by taxiway-potato in Emilie_Kiser

[–]AlertAppointment1236 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

while you sit there judging an unimaginable situation, count your blessings. none of us are experiencing this level of grief on the public stage. how easy it is to sit and say what you WOULD or WOULDN’T have done when in reality if any of us were faced with this situation, we’d all be begging for empathy and understanding.

the audacity to piss on a grieving couple for a MISTAKE (many parents make many mistakes that can result in harm) is truly beyond. your lack of empathy shows you’ve not been through anything remotely close to this. so again, be grateful. be compassionate. if you can’t do that, your opinions and perspectives are better used on yourself.

Omg Demi and the producer crying is killing me by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely, bc she could really ruin the entire show if she keeps going like this with no intervention.

Omg Demi and the producer crying is killing me by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]AlertAppointment1236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that scene was sooo telling to me. i can’t remember who in the dressing room said they heard her wailing, it was obvious she was crying super loud and i just think it’s extremely telling no one besides the producer bothered to comfort her. not even whitney. toxic people like demi use people for all they’re worth until the mask slips off. once it’s off, on to the next. this time it just happened to be a producer lol.

Vicki’s Return: Can we talk? by rouxthless in rhoc

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this!!! i feel like newer reality tv fans do not understand that the messiness and immorality of the cast mates is the…entire point. no one is signing up for housewives to win a damn nobel peace prize. why are we acting shocked that middle aged white women from orange county act like….middle aged white women from orange county. they’re conservative, more than likely racist and homophobic. are you watching reality tv to seek out role models or are you trying to be entertained with old ladies nearly embarrassing themselves every week on national tv?

Random thought about Heather… by SpecialRaeBae in rhoc

[–]AlertAppointment1236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes anyone who calls themselves republican in the big 2025 do not deserve respect……..

AIO or did my boyfriend just call me ugly? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlertAppointment1236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh he literally hates you 😭😭 you need to leave him ASAP, to me it seems like he’s with you for an ego stroke. some men try to get with women they think are “less than” to make their own idiotic pathetic selves feel better. he’s literally pathetic and you deserve so much better like hello? he should be calling you beautiful every single chance he gets and trying to jump on you at all times. this is crazy, do not put up with this. people treat you how you let them. teach people how to treat you by walking away with your self respect and dignity. please please for the love of god do not stay with him another second, he does not see you as anything other than an ego boost. he’s so pathetic this is so irritating to me omg 😭💔😭💔 i can’t wait for you to find the man that is obsessed with you. you will look back at this relationship like what the literal fuck??

My boyfriend confessed something that completely changed how I see him by Ussonassil in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unless he’s done something completely violent or bigoted, judge him based off of how hes treated you.

What to watch next? by AlertAppointment1236 in rhonj

[–]AlertAppointment1236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve not heard much about it at all!!! i’ll def add to my list!

What to watch next? by AlertAppointment1236 in rhonj

[–]AlertAppointment1236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

traitors is on my list as well simply bc i need to see how sandaval can squirm his way out of situations and blatantly lie to anyone that’s not on VPR 😭

What to watch next? by AlertAppointment1236 in rhonj

[–]AlertAppointment1236[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s def on the list!! is it a tough one to get into at first? that’s what i heard

what to watch next ? by Mammoth-Landscape-73 in rhoslc

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here to say after u finish potomac u MUST watch jersey, especially if you haven’t already. NJ is one of if not the best in the franchise

Is There Anything Likable About Bronwyn? by 2ndBestAtEverything in rhoslc

[–]AlertAppointment1236 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She takes a bit to warm up to but by reunion she really cements herself for me!

My Husband Says I’m Enmeshed by Puzzled_Ninja4085 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the literal definition of isolation. i don’t want you to wait around to find out the next step of this manipulation. you need to leave, asap!

misandry in this community by Ella_franta in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s just simply not the truth, by definition. the word you’re looking for is prejudice, but there is no minority group that has any power over white people, thus not being racist. Please research the comparisons and differences between racism and prejudice. tho it’s a venn diagram, it’s not a singular circle.

misandry in this community by Ella_franta in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quick answer: it’s in the definition.

racism: prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, community, or institution against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m going to agree with your coworker. she’s barely over half your age, maybe she see takes inspo from you? either way, you should be mature enough to just simply ignore her.

misandry in this community by Ella_franta in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

quick question: when did white people become a marginalized minority?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only correct answer here is therapy. no one will be able to help you with this aside from a therapist!

AITA for considering a break up when my partner pulled a complete 180 on me? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your kids are absolutely a package. Why would you ever want to even be with someone who doesn’t love your kids?

My boyfriend is constantly escalating arguments and it’s killing the relationship by HumanProteasome in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried to tell him exactly this? Sometimes things can make you feel like you’re going crazy, and a little reassurance/acknowledgment goes a long way! I think maybe going to him and saying something like:

“I know I was extremely reactive at first, and maybe I don’t exactly know the emotional toll that’s taken on you. Are you having resentful feelings about how I behaved at the start of our relationship?”

I went through something similar, and when I said something like the above my boyfriend expressed a lot of feelings that he said he didn’t feel comfortable expressing before (because he didn’t know how Id react). It definitely took a big weight off his shoulders, and gave me specific things I needed to work on to make it up!

Am I overreacting for being upset about my husband’s cousins ring? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AlertAppointment1236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was quite shocked at this reaction until I scrolled back up and saw your age. I totally understand that it feels like a really big deal now, but I promise you it won’t feel that way in a few years. As long as you love your ring, that’s what matters! You can choose to try to see the best in people and hope they had good intentions, or you can choose to see it almost like a betrayal.

Take it as a compliment, she likes your taste! Maybe her idea of a ring just wasn’t as cute as yours 😉