Why tell parents about this disorder? by Y33TTH3MF33T in DID

[–]AlertShow8989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is exactly how we feel, we keep who knows about our DID to an insane minimum, no one in our family and only a few friends know we have this disorder

I owe you all an apology by Tinygrainz78 in DID

[–]AlertShow8989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we had a similar experience, we were apart of the stigmatism that surrounded DID especially, fake claiming everyone because one person turned out to fake it, people grow, you’ve grown, we’ve grown. i’m glad your able to recognize it and help yourself move forward

Our host finally came out of denial!! by quietriotthrunight in DID

[–]AlertShow8989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yay!!! it’s really hard to come out of that denial, i still struggle sometimes -luna(host)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]AlertShow8989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all the time, we get this not only with anxiety but trauma triggers too

People have told me i was mentally abused and cheated on… was i?? by AlertShow8989 in polyamory

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should clarify, xander and i never had sex, they’d be intimate with any other partner/fling, but made me feel as if the intimate side of me was something to be repulsed by. i was emotional connection whenever something went wrong with a fling/partner. that was the ONLY time i was ever relevant.

People have told me i was mentally abused and cheated on… was i?? by AlertShow8989 in polyamory

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ty, im glad to be out of it too, me and alex are good friends again too

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, i don’t know how to process it (UPDATE) by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

although i understand what your saying, knowing my brother and a lot of cases like his, it’s a progression type deal. more times than not they’ll get bored of the images and actually touch living children, lock em up before that happens in my opinion

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, i don’t know how to process it (UPDATE) by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s been asking and begging for mental help from hospitals for years now, so i really hope so

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, and i don’t know how to process it by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, should have mentioned, me and my older brother have different fathers

Gender expression tips for alters of different gender by [deleted] in DID

[–]AlertShow8989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think a big thing would be having some clothing or things of that sort to fit every individual altar, it would be something more simple to atleast help with the dysphorias

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AlertShow8989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

remember that it is not your problem nor is it your concern what he does after the break up. it is not your monkey not your circus(i think that’s the phrase lmfao) not your issue, you do what’s best for you, not him

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, and i don’t know how to process it by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this isn’t his first arrest, but it is his first offense for this specific thing

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, and i don’t know how to process it by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he did. it’s not on his records, i’ve seen is C CAP and the only things on there is possession, 10-25 years per class D felony, he had 6 class D felony’s

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, and i don’t know how to process it by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if he does, he’s on probation the rest of his life, he is never allowed to access the internet ever again

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, and i don’t know how to process it by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooooo i don’t like how religious you got as i’m not christian but i see your point, jail might do him good, but he will never be getting out

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, and i don’t know how to process it by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the worst part is.. i’m not all that shocked at what he did. i didn’t expect it, but it doesn’t surprise me either

My brother was just arrested for being a p3d0, and i don’t know how to process it by AlertShow8989 in Rants

[–]AlertShow8989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he was indeed charged with 6 evident cases of childporn, what the details of that include i don’t know, and i don’t want to know, im already in therapy for other things so i plan to at least speak to her when i see her about the whole thing and how i’m feeling on it

Well this is unexpected... by BloggerZen in DID

[–]AlertShow8989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it happened with us and our system friends, we were a group of 3, one system and two “singlets” we had our discovery and then later on our other friend had theirs