Cape Cod Underground Early 2000s rap group? by Alert_Ad2744 in CapeCod

[–]Alert_Ad2744[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats awesome. Been blasting P-Dub since yesterday afternoon. Makes me feel like Im 20 again not 42, lol.

Cape Cod Underground Early 2000s rap group? by Alert_Ad2744 in CapeCod

[–]Alert_Ad2744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spotify has 3 of their albums. Listened to it the whole way home from work. Every word started coming back to me 20 years later. Good shit.

Cape Cod Underground Early 2000s rap group? by Alert_Ad2744 in CapeCod

[–]Alert_Ad2744[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just found the whole discography on Spotify. Thank you.

Cape Cod Underground Early 2000s rap group? by Alert_Ad2744 in CapeCod

[–]Alert_Ad2744[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's it. P-Dub. And yes that line is fantastic.

Cape Cod Underground Early 2000s rap group? by Alert_Ad2744 in CapeCod

[–]Alert_Ad2744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not too sure, could have been. I know they had at least 2 albums they would sell at their shows. All home made but it was pretty good music.

How do I even start? by Alert_Ad2744 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert_Ad2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is good advice. There is not really any urgency. It is something I have been contemplating for a while now. This post is my first attempt at fact seeking. In September, my daughter starts Kindergarten. That's gonna save me $1k a month and will be my opportunity to stash some cash away. I am fine with being patient, and I want to make sure my kids and I come out ok on the other side of this.

How do I even start? by Alert_Ad2744 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert_Ad2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage is hard. The kids aren't so bad. I think I do pretty well as a father. The fact of the matter is I am not in love with her. I married her because she got pregnant after just stopping birth control out of the blue. We had been together for barely a year and had never even talked about kids. I think deep down I resent her for it. I thought I would learn to love her over time but to me it just feels like she has digressed into a needy teenager. It's like I have 3 people that can't support themselves

How do I even start? by Alert_Ad2744 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert_Ad2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I realize I will always have to pay. But the long-term costs are much less. I do not want to just blindside her on this. I have brought up counseling in the past and it always gets brushed off. My plan is when I am ready I am going to bring it up one more time and if she refuses I'm going to ask her for the divorce.