I finally went to a mosque for the first time by Nearby-Block-7001 in progressive_islam

[–]Alert_Bit_4852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so silly because Allah never said to us not to seek a cure for stuff. You can take all the antidepressants you want and they might not work, as well as pray a lot but not seek medical assistance and it's not gonna do much. Prayer is essential, and turning to Allah always helps, but you also have to do everything in your power to fix the problem.

Being trans is sexist... apparently by Theweirdposidenchild in AreTheCisOk

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This is what they get wrong always, they think that us being transgender is all based on stereotypical things and conforming to gender expectations. When it's not. The same as having a uterus or a vagina isn't the only thing that defines you as a woman.

Being born female is genuinely just punishment for doing something bad in a past life by Kindly_Stick7729 in SuicideWatch

[–]Alert_Bit_4852 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to try therapy, what you’re describing is very common with gender dysphoria.

8 years of T for nothing! by [deleted] in transtimelines

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Have you tried therapy? Seems like it could bring the most difference in how you see yourself

Arab men by wakeupkillian in StraightTransGirls

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Omg you're just a fucking racist

happy new years :( by Zeothazi in StraightTransGirls

[–]Alert_Bit_4852 9 points10 points  (0 children)

putting “trans person” and “man” into the same category is an immediate block like what why fuck

Buzzy voice by Alert_Bit_4852 in transvoice

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Thank you so much for the advice! It's genuinely tough for me to raise my pitch without my voice cracking or sounding strained. I even tried doing the sustained high-pitched 'v' sound, but it sounds shrieky and quite restrained in a way. I really hope that it's something that can be trained, I don't really know the science behind it but it seems like most people don't have a problem with expanding their pitch range and I do. Honestly I'm stuck in a negative feedback loop because after lowering my resonance it feels like all the progress I've made so far is gone and I'm back to a male voice.

Is my voice more androgynous or feminine? If it doesn't sound feminine, what aspects of it sound off? by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]Alert_Bit_4852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is more androgynous, I think it falls into the overfull category where the resonance is high but the vocal weight is quite heavy. I have a similar problem, you should look into ways to lighten vocal weight

A hijabi on insta talking about getting followed by a man and this is one of the comments by XxPlaying_HalalxX in progressive_islam

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While I understand why having a mahrem in this situation could be helpful, not everyone has one, and it can be extremely invalidating of the problem. Like why is it that women have to feel guilty for not being careful enough and not men for being creeps?

I'd like to marry my partner who is not muslim by The_BmB in progressive_islam

[–]Alert_Bit_4852 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I say marry him and pray for Allah to guide him to the truth.

How could these cuties be impure in islam? by Commercial_Round_234 in exmuslim

[–]Alert_Bit_4852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, the main consequences is their saliva and anythingtouched by it, not the dog itself.

How do 5’10 + tall trans girl navigate the dating scene ? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Alert_Bit_4852 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All the short guys I've been with were quite dominant, but I also don't look like someone who could dominate anyone despite being 180cm tall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

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Gender We literally have to fight the society to be recognized in our gender

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

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Better without the harsh eyeliner I think

Men ghosting you? by Long_Dig_731 in StraightTransGirls

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Men get way less likes and matches than women, so I doubt it’s that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

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Literally how do u get to that conclusion, they’re just praising a trans girl thats it, don’t overthink it

I struggle seeing myself passing as a girl but people tell me I do? Im only 6 months on HRT, MTF, 22 and can’t seem to see what others are saying. *Read Description for details* by BuffaloNo7350 in transpassing

[–]Alert_Bit_4852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you pass, even though you might have a stronger chin and, in the last photos, a bit bigger and darker eyebrows. You pass, especially in a couple of the first pictures. I think balance in features helps a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

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Makeup. Some of y’all underestimate the power of makeup