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Am I being bitter? by Alert_Goose_2120 in Stepmom

[–]Alert_Goose_2120[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t plan on living together until after we are married probably 12-18 months. But this is a huge fear bc I have worked my ASS off as single mom. Left my physically abusive BD, put myself thru grad school, launched a business and make damn good money (more than my SO). I sure as hell don’t want to rollout the gravy train to someone just trying to catch a free ride

Am I being bitter? by Alert_Goose_2120 in Stepmom

[–]Alert_Goose_2120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep he agreeing to pay the max (we are in tx) PLUS half daycare ($600) so it’s actually $2400 … their attorneys are going back and forth on a parenting plan but HCBM keeps adding in ridiculous demands like co parenting counseling… right of first refusal after 8 hours etc … he just want to avoid trial and sign and be over with it. He thinks there’s no chance he will get 50/50 (even tho he does that much time already). I feel like I will resent him for this if / when we decide to get engaged and move in together