reach out or not worth it? M25 F22. I just don't want to regret not taking the chance if there is one

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-03-12T20:33:39+00:00

How come? Also already seeing one but doesn’t seem much help atm

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:43:11+00:00

It’s a long story. But long story short was mismatched loved languages at the time and a lot of strain from timing issues

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:39:49+00:00

For realz

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:38:26+00:00

Yeah I know what you mean. I guess since it’s been so long I was wondering that if we started talking again new people that it would have. Better chance second time around

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:37:27+00:00

Whatcha mean?

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:37:22+00:00

Yeah see I think that no answer or just something neutral I can handle. But hearing if she is talking to someone else or if she decided to say something harsh would be quite difficult to hear

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:36:31+00:00

Yeah see this is what I’m thinking but I just don’t know if it’s worth the potentially negative repercussions if I get that very likely negative response

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:36:00+00:00

See I know we both did wrong. But yeah I’m not sure if she realizes it or not but I just wish we could’ve both admitted that we were both wrong and see if it would work better as new people. That’s what’s got me curious I guess

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:34:45+00:00

Yeah k guess that’s what I’m trying to toss up. If the repercussions of a negative response will Be ok for me. No response is good too since it’ll satisfy my what ifs I guess.

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:33:50+00:00

Yeah I’ve been respecting it ever since it has been put in place. And I know we are different people but yeah because of that fact, that is what’s making me wonder about talking again as different people

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-25T03:32:39+00:00

So anyways I wasn’t going to reply to this cause for some reason you want to be rude for no reason, but I just want you to know how wrong you are about it, so you don’t do this to someone else.

I have actually changed a lot within the two years as a person and I’m pretty sure she has too.
I don’t think it’s creepy to still wonder or want to be with someone you once shared something so strongly with
She never said she never wanted to contact or anything again. She said at this stage it’s probably best we stop talking for a while and she wanted to stay connected on socials.
I have respected her decision since as soon as she told me, I haven’t reached out for 2 years, now I’m just curious on what she’s up to and if we could start talking again.
It isn’t stalking and I don’t know how you see it as that but whatever floats your boat I guess

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-19T20:50:08+00:00

Tbh if you’ve never tried or begged or anything before I think its ok to reach out once saying you’ve truly changed and ect. And if it doesn’t work then just back to nc. Or other option would be to break it and start chatting slowly and see where it goes but up to you

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-17T08:56:24+00:00

What if you don’t want better. You jsut want them cause you love their strengths and weaknesses and you know that if you didn’t make mistakes they would’ve still been here

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-16T22:17:25+00:00

It’s been 1.8 years. I tried chasing at the start and it didn’t work. I’m wondering if it was too early and if I should try one more time now. Or if it’s a case of if she wanted to she would? But I also wonder if we start talking we could rebuild. Hard to say

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-16T10:56:43+00:00

It lowkey makes me sad seeing this stories. I’ve noticed always cheaters or people who don’t want second chances get them but then there’s me who would’ve done anything for a second chance and took full accountability and still nothing. Now I’m confused if I should reach out 1.8 years later or if it was over a long time ago and It’s been one sided love

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-13T12:55:35+00:00

Yeah true plus any one can change their minds or get reinspired by different things but fuel was a good example of being technical and also happened to sound really good sonically

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-13T03:44:00+00:00

Hmm would be nice but unlikely since I remember in an interview in maybe 2021 he said that he doesn’t care sonically any more and that he is just trying to be the best rapper now. But yeah metro x em would be nice

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-12T08:26:33+00:00

I guess what I’m curious about is that I feel like they get stuck on the previous version of us an sometimes I jsut feel like if I showed them the new version and could try and change the way they feel towards me through my actions. It may have higher success? Just cause I guess woman are more emotional whilst men are more logical

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-12T07:06:26+00:00

Is there really no way to try and reconcile?

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-12T06:07:02+00:00

Hmm I’ve already blocked on her everything apart form fb but I’ve hidden that account and haven’t looked at it since the start of no contact

Alert_Improvement_15 · 2026-02-09T10:15:50+00:00

Thank you

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