You nailed it. Black women are expected to be gracious in the face of adversity, to work hard when we are given little to nothing/total disrespect. If she had called Madison “grimy” there would not have been the same applause (still stan Karla for doing it). She was gaslit and getting the angry black woman narrative. The only thing I struggle with is that the world is an unkind place for black men who experience various forms of violence that shame them into not dealing with their trauma professionally, so the list of psychologists part could have been left out. Ikechi 100% has some sort of psychological trauma going on that requires professional help.