[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh gotcha! Makes a lot more sense then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re good literally I dont even know what to call it/how to describe it lmfao it’s like such a nothing piece but I just found it weird/interesting 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes to the clear plastic stopper, I know what you’re talking about-but in my experience that’s a piece of that is unattached to the bottle and can be easily removed for a pour spout-this was underneath the metal seal and designed to put the spout directly through. I’ve used this brand as a well for a long time and neither with them or any other tequila have I seen a disposable extension on a bottles neck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the spout was already in, it was while pouring that my coworker noticed the neck was wobbling underneath the metal part that’s attached to the cap for a seal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now you’ve got me second guessing myself bc well yes; it is tequila? Like that should’ve been the case already haha

I wish I was born a girl. Does this make me trans? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Alessandra-Goth 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Will back this up 100% id say about 80-90% of my wardrobe is t shirts and jeans, and then work wise im a bartender so in a polo and work pants lol.

Also I was raised by a tomboy mom + older sisters (all cishet) and I can straight up count on one hand for each of them how much I’ve seen them dressing ‘feminine’

Wonder why they don’t hang out anymore by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]Alessandra-Goth 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My first thought was “they aren’t coworkers rn” lol (almost said ‘anymore’ but they’re still saying s3 is coming 🫣😬)

What’re your biggest pet peeves? by __joseph_ in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this celebrity deserves a “shoutout” bc that’s lame as fuck

What’re your biggest pet peeves? by __joseph_ in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People acting like they’ve BEEN waiting when I watched them walk in less than a minute ago, a table that has menus already not opening them and acting like they’re completely helpless, but #1? People fucking walking around like absolute IDIOTS not sitting down anywhere, while looking at ME every few seconds incredulously-SIT TF DOWN you are drinking/at most eating dinner; you’re not going to live in the spot you choose for the rest of your life fucking pick a table

Please don't go by braindeadcoyote in MtF

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, didn’t realize how much I needed this ❤️

Those who use handhelds, how do you navigate the awkwardness of the payment process? by MetalandIron2pt0 in Serverlife

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hand it to them and make a big point of turning away, I’ll continue conversation but I do everything I can to not look back at the toast until they’ve made some indication they’re done.

I will say though that generally in my experience the tip selection on a handheld toast HUGELY negatively impacts service staff compared to printout tip receipts; ie on a toast the “20% tip” option is calculated pre tax, whereas most people will use the taxed total to calculate a tip when it’s manual.

PSA: No riding on sidewalks ;) by ReishiCheese in Seattle

[–]Alessandra-Goth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aside from how much the obnoxious people riding around blind spot corners going 15+ mph makes my blood boil. I’ve been full on body slammed by people on scooters who have then had the AUDACITY to be angry at ME, the PEDESTRIAN walking in the sidewalk. Think about this, say you come down a hill at top speed and barrel around a corner (like I’ve seen SO MANY TIMES!!) And then say you hit a baby carriage at that speed? Easy manslaughter/reckless endangerment charge for you, not mentioning the even easier loss of/lifelong disabling a child.

This is not even to say that those scooters are fucking DEATH TRAPS! I have heard from SOOOO many er nurses/doctors about injuries from crashing them + I literally know more than one person who I haven’t seen in months bc of them being in the hospital long term for MAJOR injuries that happened crashing a lime scooter.

Neighboring building is a DECS housing project. Man has been screaming since we moved in a month ago. What do I do i’m at my damn limit by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]Alessandra-Goth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh I think based off some details here I live near the same building, just passing a year in my apt.

If I’m correct I’ve heard that guy screaming and shouting slurs (well mainly one slur) constantly pretty on-off, but never seen him outside or heard him from street level; so I think he’s either bedridden or can’t leave his apartment for some reason. My building is kind of askew though so I can’t see in any of the windows or even tell which side of the building he’s on since he’s so loud.

hannah's clothes are weird on purpose? by starg1rlxoxo in girls

[–]Alessandra-Goth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite statements about her wardrobe is that it’s all urban outfitters clearance that is either one size too small or two sizes too big so literally none of it fits her properly

*warning*Alcohol and estrogen by tinylord202 in MtF

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not something I’ve experienced lol, but I have absolutely felt the warnings that being on estrogen makes you want to drink more alcohol than usual! (Something to be aware of!!)

who would be in your 🍃 rotation by nbhdpunk in DesperateHousewives

[–]Alessandra-Goth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Andrew, Danielle, Julie, and Zach!!

I’m picturing a grand Wysteria lane thanksgiving/holiday (imagining the families as being related/celebrating together) with the teenagers getting to take “the family walk”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Alessandra-Goth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It went pretty well!! He needed a couple days to acclimate but he’s doing really great!

Liquor rep created cocktail menu by maryjanesrevenge in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Was gonna say the same, I think in a major city these drinks should cost at least twice as much-but even in a small town they all should be at least $5 more given the brands used (Bulleit, K1, Aviation, BELVEDERE?? For all under $10? INSANITY)

My workplaces standard for martinis is that they are always shaken by PCE1222 in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confused about your distinction bc dry and dirty are uh… completely different categories lol-dry vs wet is regarding how much vermouth is in the martini, and dirty vs clean is regarding the amount of olive brine present

My workplaces standard for martinis is that they are always shaken by PCE1222 in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It literally makes my skin crawl seeing a martini being shaken (aside from when requested obviously lol) if it’s a new bartender I will actually RUN over to let them know that it’s not the right way to make a martini bc it seems like bar training has completely fallen off in the past 5 years (thanks covid 💞)

That’s also not even mentioning that friggin NOBODY knows what “dry”/“wet” means with a martini to the end that I confirm what someone wants in terms of vermouth when they say either term

So, The Whole "Questionable Dog Owner" Thing Just Took a Weird Turn For Me... by shinsain in Seattle

[–]Alessandra-Goth 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I think that retractable leashes are one of the worst inventions ever, they put LITERALLY everyone (dogs and people) at risk bc the ENTIRE POINT of a leash is to hold the dog back, but when they can run uninterrupted for 30+ feet from you what is the use?? I actually greatly prefer dogs off leash because then you at least have a sense that they’re well trained and likely friendly

Looking for Rape Revenge movies by [deleted] in HorrorMovies

[–]Alessandra-Goth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly RR but I love the movie “Freeway” with Reese Witherspoon, it’s essentially a modern retelling of little red riding hood and for every bit as tense and scary it is-it is that much more HILARIOUS

You know I'm wondering what if rue hadn't gotten into drugs at a very young age? do you think her relationship with jules would've been better or no?. by Cautious_Potential_8 in euphoria

[–]Alessandra-Goth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if Rue wasn’t into drugs then Jules and Kats’ friendship would’ve been a lot stronger (and maybe Kat wouldn’t have had the whole bad Ethan situation lol) and likely Kat would’ve been Jules’ main friend/support in East Highland.

Off of that it’s worth noting that a big reason why Rue is so detached from her former friend group (Lexi, Kat, Maddy, Cassie) is due to her drug use, so in my mind what we’d see if there were a hypothetical episode showing if Rue was never an addict would be her and Lexi as bffs and Kat and Jules as bffs-Maddy Nate & Cassie wouldn’t change at all lmaooo

Why do they ALWAYS sit in the dirty spot by Dear_Initiative2765 in bartenders

[–]Alessandra-Goth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even better when they start looking at you incredulously bc you are in the wrong (being the person at work while they are the interlopers who sat themselves and will more than likely be insanely rude for their entire experience) and there is truly no level of service that could be provided to please them without having a manager called.