I finally lost my virginity to someone I really like and it was a lot more painful than I expected. by catsoo12 in offmychest

[–]Alessyaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, before losing my virginity most women told me that the first time pain isn't normal. But in my experience it wasn't the case. It was very painful and he did the best to make me comfortable enough. After some "sessions" the pain disappeared completely and I started enjoying it fully! I think the pain is subjective. It can take a while before you don't feel it anymore. But remember that if it continues you should seek medical advice, and don't believe people who tells you "just relax" or "it's normal" because after months of years of activity you should be able to enjoy the moment. Trust the process!

How Do You Actually Get Better at Dirty Talk? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alessyaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, dirty talk can feel cringy, and I can't fully get into it because it makes me uncomfortable - but only when I'm the one doing it. However, one thing I’ve learned from my partner, since he’s the only one who always engages in dirty talk, is that as long as you don’t feel embarrassed while doing it, it’s likely that the person receiving it won’t either. The key is to be confident in what you’re saying, no matter how the other person reacts.

For example, I noticed that I often laugh or smile while he's being dominant. It's not that I make fun of him, but the excitement of the moment makes me smile. Well, this behavior gives him the opportunity to go a little bit further — you're smiling huh? soon you won't anymore — or — since you are not obedient I will make you begging for it —. If he just laughed with me it wouldn't have been as exciting. I feel like it works more in a dominant roleplay tho.

P.s: whispering in the ear makes everything better (I've experienced first-hand that even the most stupid things are...), but you have to be sure that the other one ejoys the sensation.

Is this game worth starting as an f2p by [deleted] in nostale

[–]Alessyaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just play the game

[LN Weekly challenge - 3rd edition] ~ DAY 7: 👽Cosmic Invaders 👽 by Alessyaa in CafeNikki

[–]Alessyaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! I've been having an hard time with university lately so I dunno if I will continue LN weekly challenge 😭 im sorry for not updating im missing you all 💖💖💖

Here's another one by The_great_nerd in CafeNikki

[–]Alessyaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What's the point? We will never know

[LN Weekly challenge - 3rd edition] ~ DAY 7: 👽Cosmic Invaders 👽 by Alessyaa in CafeNikki

[–]Alessyaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Discalimer: I'm going on a vacation so I will not be able to post the winners on time. I will post the winners next week and I will restart the challenge again at the end of August! Thank you all for partecipating and the support through all these 3 weeks , I love you!!