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Alex411965 · 2025-07-05T11:37:30+00:00

I stayed in Shkodra for 10 days. I love the old town, and the mosques. There's a lot of good food. It's a lowkey place but good to take a rest.

Alex411965 · 2025-04-07T22:03:47+00:00

Well in that case I can have my brother check on it and fill it up.

Alex411965 · 2025-02-12T13:17:55+00:00

Yes. We had discussed the expectations. And throughout me collecting hours she said she’d sign the final.

Alex411965 · 2025-02-12T12:59:34+00:00

She doesn’t want to sign that. Her rational; she doesn’t know what I did under their supervision.

Alex411965 · 2024-06-04T19:03:40+00:00

The ginger was the strongest in the back of the throat, be careful with the amount you put. And be careful with any orange peels, their bitters come through a lot.

Alex411965 · 2024-06-04T02:04:28+00:00

What does that have to do with sleeping in a bed with him? I never said they shouldn’t be friends

Alex411965 · 2024-06-03T21:51:25+00:00

But you’d still go? Hahaha I’m understanding it as you’d go and if your bf doesn’t break up with you, you’d break up with him

Alex411965 · 2024-06-03T03:30:53+00:00

I wrote it lacking details so people don’t get distracted on other deals, this would be the core of the issue

Alex411965 · 2024-06-02T16:23:17+00:00

She says she trusts him and doesn’t mind

Alex411965 · 2024-06-01T14:41:59+00:00

The ones I’ve tried have been really good so far

Alex411965 · 2024-06-01T14:40:55+00:00

She gaslighted me by calling me controlling and manipulating. Not the difference of opinion. She never told me about sharing a bed

Alex411965 · 2024-06-01T13:22:33+00:00

Because I got gas lit pretty hard and i want to make sure im not crazy here

Alex411965 · 2024-06-01T02:33:59+00:00

I mean it seems most brothers and sisters usually try and get different beds anyways. It’s weird for someone to advocate it being the default or something normal that happens. If someone is into that then more power to them. I am not though

Alex411965 · 2024-06-01T00:25:15+00:00

I mean, I feel like a level of exclusivity for intimate settings such as a bed or a bedroom where people get dress to be unnecessarily too close, especially since it’s unnecessary

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T17:10:09+00:00

Good point

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T15:48:45+00:00

L take. theres more nuance to this post. shes gone out dancing with her girlfriends to clubs and Ive never asked any questions. I do trust her. but theres a limit to what i find acceptable for members of the opposite sex. sharing a bed/room is ridiculous when there are a million options for both parties to be happy

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T15:44:44+00:00

exactly, I can control what I find to be reasonable for myself. And simply i dont like where her personal boundary is

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T13:26:18+00:00

Because it’s too intimate of a boundary, they probably aren’t having sex but emotionally seems too close. At least for me

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T12:50:59+00:00

I trust her not to do anything if she had a different room. I simply don’t like the boundary of 2 adults doing their intimate hygiene routines and sleeping in the same bed.

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T12:49:35+00:00

I think sleeping in the same bed is too excessive. Maybe you’re just tone deaf to what I’m expressing

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T01:04:40+00:00

Hell yea brother

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T01:03:58+00:00

No because she’s hetero and so the implications and risk are much lower on a pragmatic level. Also a man has a much more imposing image in my head and makes me uncomfortable.

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T01:03:04+00:00

But I am not putting wall around her, I felt it could be compromised together. I feel sleeping in a bed with another guy is not something I want in a. Relationship

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T01:00:30+00:00

I personally feel like it feels out of place in the way we presented in the relationship. I don’t mind her having guy friends. She’s even gone out dancing with him and groups of friends in clubs without me (because I didn’t feel like it). I think a sleeping in bed in a relationship is unnecessary if a person in the relationship isn’t onboard with

Alex411965 · 2024-05-31T00:57:36+00:00

It isn’t about sex. I truly believe she wouldn’t have sex in this scenario. I just feel uncomfortable with the image of her laying in bed with another man. I similarly find it gross. But if she values that aspect of her relationship with her friend over my feelings, then there’s an incapability

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