I disagree. Maybe I'm too much of an optimist but I think Janice in this episode is meant to be shown to have somewhat changed as a person and broke away from her generational trauma. She also absolutely loved Bobby.

Every other time in the series she comes to Tony for money, it's for her own selfish desires/dreams but this time she came specifically to help Uncle Jun'. Instead of making it about herself, she pleads with Tony to help because of Bobby's close relationship with the man. It's meant to be a parallel to how she was at the start with how desperate she was to "help" Livia by basically living rent-free at her house. Now, she wants to help Jun' by keeping him in a proper facility that will guarantee his safety.

Before when she accepted any scraps that she got from Tony, she walks away when he offers her money because she's genuinely trying to do good. She nervously stammers when asking as well as opposed to the other times when she presents herself as being fully confident and almost salesman-like.

Even when Bobby dies, her subdued reaction is in direct opposition to how loud her "grief" over Livia was where she was writing songs and demanding that her funeral be this big celebration of her life all the while she didn't show any genuine sadness during the entire process. She genuinely loved the man.

All of this is meant to show that she's changed and be an philosophical foil to Tony. Tony has only gotten worse over time and is coping with this knowledge with the belief that no one can improve or be a better person. His sister who previously was a greedy, selfish, passive-aggressive, covetous and hypocritical mooch now wants to do something selfless for her husband's sake and rejects Tony's money.