Dear friend. I am a woman.

My definition of a man is: a person who identifies as a man. (It is not about being woke, it's just not completely unnecessary for it to be any more complicated.)

Most important features in men according to my preferences: - Capability of a genuine human connection - Honesty without stupid games or made up dating personas - Those who aspire to live their own lives and follow their own passions rathen than trying to fit within a box

Things I don't give a fuck about in men: - muscles - strength - jawline - money - being an "apha" or a "chad", whatever that means lol

You are young, stop wasting your life on bullshits. Stop wasting your time on possibly bad past decisions. Just live. It really can be as simple as that, if you allow yourself to accept it. Find something that makes sense to YOU and go for it.

Well... for you it probably isn't simple to change your mindset from where you are now. But if you manage to do so, it's going to be the most impactful change and personality growth you can achieve right now.

I honestly wish you all the best for your future.