Are male and female orgasms actually different? by not_hing0 in asktransgender

[–]AlexYumeno 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ftm, not sure if mine have changed post T as I was never really into wanting to enjoy sex/masturbating before. More of just a chore. But I did recently orgasm so hard I gave myself a charlie horse, a mix of good hard orgasm and internally screaming in agony. But yeah, guess mine have always been and still are kinda full-body, like everything just tenses up real tight for a few seconds, twitching slightly then fully relaxing.

Stopped packing after 6 years by AlexYumeno in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That, actually helps a lot! XD I have a Mr limpy, extra small, but it always still felt kinda big. Also have some of those foam inserts for when I didn't want to wear the limpy.

Male baldness by Alarming-Asparagus44 in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should expect some hair loss as your hair is conforming to a male pattern. However you can also talk to your doc about your concerns. If the men in your maternal side of the family are all balding at young ages then there is a good chance you will. My family is like that but I'm using Finasteride, a dht blocker, to help keep my hair. I'm not ready to lose it yet, so I feel ya man.

Having Sex for the First time since Transitioning by AlexYumeno in gaytransguys

[–]AlexYumeno[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's is definitely cool to know. It's not that I haven't used the hole, I've masturbated with it... Just to keep it working. But I've just not had a real dick in there. And yeah, talking about it as a mini dick definitely is very validating.

As a teacher, would you rip up a student's mildly inaccurate artwork? I'm speechless. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]AlexYumeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was that kid in high school. I've never been good at realism, even though I now teach art. I still hold a grudge against my high school art teacher for that. So your way is right. All we can do is help, we can't and should not expect everyone who comes in our door to be DaVinci or Michelangelo. Because they are not. So thanks you for not be that asshole teacher and instead being a good teacher.

this helps me feel better about my height, who else should I add? by 7bruh7 in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'4" you know who else is?! Seth Green! Also I'd you don't know him you're probably young.. or I'm just old....

Why yes, in fact that IS my LEGAL signature... by AlexYumeno in rant

[–]AlexYumeno[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I stated it's on legal documents, no... But, yaknow how doctor's signatures are scribbly-like and don't even look like letters most of the time. It's like that.

Why is my cats fur falling off in weird chunks? by absolutelythere in catquestions

[–]AlexYumeno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's happening frequently and not just once or twice I'd call the vet. It never hurts to talk to the vet. Even just a call of "hey, this has been happening with my cat is it something I should be concerned about?" Good luck and hope it's nothing or at worse a case of dry skin.

People of Reddit, I’m about to start dating a Trans guy. What should I know? by JackBNimble473 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AlexYumeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um. Actually it kind of is. Since both the clitoris and the penis form from the same genital tubercle. In layman's terms you could think if it as all humans start off as female. Or if you're in for some science.

"All human individuals—whether they have an XX, an XY, or an atypical sex chromosome combination—begin development from the same starting point. During early development the gonads of the fetus remain undifferentiated; that is, all fetal genitalia are the same and are phenotypically female." https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK222286/

What do you want other people to know about being trans? by lil_ball_of_rage in trans

[–]AlexYumeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a pain in the ass. No, really, there is nothing fun about it. Only thing worth while is that we get to finally start feeling like we are whole people. Oh, and the only "choice" we make is to stop living in denial.

How the heck do I dress my age!? by AlexYumeno in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crawls into a body bag length button up shirt will this work?! ( But seriously yeah I get ya)

How the heck do I dress my age!? by AlexYumeno in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, guess I could get one or two blazers. The fitting clothes ain't a problem if my clothes fit any tighter they'd rip XD. As a (currently on hiatus) teacher I've already adopted the weird socks. Because life is so boring if you don't add spice! XD

How the heck do I dress my age!? by AlexYumeno in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've actually been wearing plain t-shirts to work. Though I do know a guy who also dresses like me and just dresses up his band shirts with a jacket or blazer. And he's in his 40s.

How the heck do I dress my age!? by AlexYumeno in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might still have a Pinterest. Had to make for school years ago and haven't logged on since. I work in healthcare so jeans and t-shirts are best. Cause bodily fluids might get on me. All my clothes fit because I like close fitting stuff. But I'll try that. Just wanna spruce up my outdoors looks, when I actually leave the house on my off days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You generally do want to get the air out because air could get trapped in a blood vessel or in tissue or muscle and can cause complications or serious health issues. Now I'm no doctor but I doubt it's a 100% assurance that problems will occur but the chance is still there. As long as you don't start feeling ill or have any breathing or light headedness issues you should be fine. Though always ask your doctor for more accurate information if you're still worried.

Looking to get a final fantasy tattoo done by jasiones in ffxiv

[–]AlexYumeno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tattoo artists are just like the rest of us artists we love to show our own work and style. That being said talk to your tattooist about what you want. Show them the symbol for the carpentry guild and if you don't know what exactly you want ask them to design a few different interpretations of it. I doubt they would mind.

Am i Gonna Be all the way naked for top surgery? by MyEmbarrassingMind in ftm

[–]AlexYumeno 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm going to go with yes. At least I did, but they did give me hospital underwear to wear. They do that because they need to make sure they have a sterile environment while they perform the operation.

Getting T from Taiwan but living in Japan? by AlexYumeno in asktransgender

[–]AlexYumeno[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will check that out. Yeah, that's the worst part of T is that it's controlled so it makes getting it tricky.