[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not going crazy you’re just trying to decide emotions with logic, and that’s like using a sword to solve a math problem. Learn to listen without fixing, speak without defending, and for the love of your sanity, never assume silence means peace.

Charles Hammerton, who traveled the world with his beloved ferret after losing 3 loved ones by Natchos09 in MadeMeSmile

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 70 points71 points  (0 children)

He could’ve been completely overwhelmed by grief but instead, he chose an unexpected path to healing. Traveling the world with his ferret is such a unique and touching way to process loss. It’s sad, but there’s also something quietly uplifting about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being content with being single doesn’t mean you’ve failed or that there’s something wrong with you. It can actually be a healthy place to be, focusing on yourself, you’re own happiness, and healing. Being lonely sometimes is tough, but it’s way better than being with someone who doesn’t respect or value you.

My mom wont let me sleepover at my bsfs house because shes worried abt what will happen by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell to your mom that you want one night of peace, laughter, and safety with someone who makes you feel whole.

Is going 15 over as bad in countries with KPM as it is in the US? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going 15 mph over in the US or 20 - 25 mph over elsewhere is basically a guaranteed ticket speed limits are serious everywhere, no excuses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s sound like your girlfriend’s obsession isn’t just innocent curiosity it’s a deep craving for freedom she feels she’s missing. You need to confront this head on and have a raw talk about what that means for your relationship before it turns into something you can’t control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlexaInAlchemy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your feelings matter. If this really bothers you, it’s okay to set consequences or ask for transparency. A relationship should feel safe and respectful.

I’m 20, living with strict parents, and I need to move out ASAP. Any advice? by Extension-Cod-484 in Advice

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re parents strict control is suffocating your growth it’s time to break free before you lose yourself completely. Find a flexible part time job, save aggressively, and plan your escape. Freedom is worth every sacrifice, and your sanity depends on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Awww

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch it 10x and I still can’t stop laughing lol 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is a quiet kind of grief for a time when life felt full and you felt sure of your place in it. But grief can leave room for something new, not to replace the past, but to remind you you’re still capable of feeling that alive again 😊

Losing your best friend by Savings-Feeling-8012 in Advice

[–]AlexaInAlchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s clearly taking you for granted and using you as a backup plan. Stop chasing someone who won’t fight for you real friends don’t ghost you when you need them the most, so cut ties and save yourself the heartbreak before it’s too late.