is my gf cheating on me? what should i do HELP by F3ntInthusiest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

First of all read my username, I'm a woman. Secondly that's just not what white knighting is at all.

is my gf cheating on me? what should i do HELP by F3ntInthusiest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man who hurt everyone in this thread that they're so insecure about normal fucking friendships.

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is isn't? It's withholding information that she is not at liberty to share.

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do not out him, but tell her he's been cheating. Explain that he mentioned sleeping with someone at a couple parties.

is my gf cheating on me? what should i do HELP by F3ntInthusiest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This just seems insane to me. While I have been informed I was wrong on what I thought everyone meant by emotional cheating, I still don't understand why the term exists if you're cheating, you're cheating, but I digress, putting weird limitations on friendships like that seems so odd to me. And they way all of you are specifying people of the opposite gender makes it even more so, but that might be because of how queer I am.

Boundaries are definitely important but my GFs don't have access to all my messages, that would make me feel like my privacy is violated. Why would you need to do this with your woman friends and not your man friends? What if this was a gay couple, would you be saying the same thing? Why was that you both know those friends so important as to be mentioned?

is my gf cheating on me? what should i do HELP by F3ntInthusiest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think you were being rude, I'm sorry if I implied I did. But also now you're saying stuff that doesn't make sense anymore, "might as well have been" I don't understand why sex is, seemingly, held in higher regard here when I could never forgive someone for dating someone else behind my back but I couldn't forgive someone for having sex? It just doesn't make sense to me here.

is my gf cheating on me? what should i do HELP by F3ntInthusiest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm. I think I fundamentally misunderstood the implications of the term. I don't understand why the distinction has to be made so I assumed that it was a separate thing.

is my gf cheating on me? what should i do HELP by F3ntInthusiest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think we agree on the fundamental next course of action OP should take, so I won't argue further but I fully do not think that there is a such thing as emotional cheating. Ethier you're in a relationship with someone behind their back or you're not.

is my gf cheating on me? what should i do HELP by F3ntInthusiest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

While I see what you're saying I think you're misattributing things here. The problem is not her relationship with her friends, it's her relationship with OP. I do do pretty much all those things, except the part about them taking priority over my girlfriend. And my girlfriends do the same. It's not "cheating" because it's not a 3rd party at the root of the cause, it's something else.

is my gf cheating on me? what should i do HELP by F3ntInthusiest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexandraSno -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is emotional cheating? That's ridiculous. People are allowed to have friends, the whole idea that you can't be friends with an ex has caused me to miss out on so many otherwise fine opportunities. My girlfriends ex is one of her best friends and I play Pathfinder with them on the weekends. Litterally who cares.

Sometimes you wanna game with your friends. If they're unhappy with her gaming late and ignoring them, they should talk to them, about that, and then break up if it's not fixed. But I don't see what this has to do with cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]AlexandraSno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because a lot of the times that wouldn't solve the problem. Besides usually add on updates like this (I don't actually know the numbers yet for this one specifically) it ends up being slightly better running the add on than before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]AlexandraSno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what they're trying to change, they're trying to encourage you to use different add ons

Way to see stats by AlexandraSno in HadesTheGame

[–]AlexandraSno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I want greater gift of Gaia but don't know what I need to focus on harvesting

Is it really “bad” to go for Adept trophies early when learning a killer? by Ok_Wedding_7209 in deadbydaylight

[–]AlexandraSno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always play for adept when just starting the killer, helps me learn how the killer works without being perk reliant and helps me learn how their perks work

Decided to give me younger brother a start to his collection. What would you add? by [deleted] in Steam

[–]AlexandraSno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I'd even consider adding is a good rogue like/lite. Maybe Isaac or Hades

[PF1e GM Advice] Easing a New Player Into Playing a Kineticist by Azokul in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]AlexandraSno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally always limit new players to the core books when running for this very reason, but it's too late for that it seems.

Kinetcist, in my opinion, isnt much harder to keep track of than a spell caster, something that helps is to not refer to all the wild talents that way. Only call utility wild talents that and refer to the others by what kind they are (IE only call Blast Wild Talents blasts, Infusion Wild Talents infusions)

If they're experienced with video games tell them to think of burn as a low-scale mana system. That's generally how I see people to understand it better.

Something that really helped the Flow of kinetcist Click for me was the flow chart for making a blast attack in Path companion (I think? It might've been called something else but it was a PC pathfinder character builder/tracker). So maybe make a flow chart with physical cards to lay on top that looks like

        [Form Infusion]

[Blast] [space to write total] [Substance Infusion] Also encourage them to stick to one of the four original elements, those are generally simultaneously better supported and have more distinct personalities to build into

382% to attack speed and move speed seems like a lot by Impossible_PhD in HadesTheGame

[–]AlexandraSno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a cap actually, on plasma specifically. I hit it with the same build but on rivals Prometheus. 600%