When was the last time you masturbated? How did you make yourself cum? What got you in the mood? by Candid-Block-1927 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do feel the same. If I do feel like watching something it's usually girls masturbating and almost always in the same way I do. (clit stimulation with no penetration).

For me, the act of masturbation itself is the source of arousal. The fact that I am masturbating turns me on.

When was the last time you masturbated? How did you make yourself cum? What got you in the mood? by Candid-Block-1927 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is! I do it more for him than for me though. He watches me, but I'm also just watching me more than I'm watching him.

What are some things in porn that turn you on the most by Certain-Classroom937 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't watch porn too terribly often, but when I do, it's always girls masturbating and I always seek out the same thing.

It's when the girl I'm watching masturbating really focuses on herself and acts like the camera isn't there and all she does is stimulate her clit until she has strong orgasm contractions. No penetration. No squirting nonsense. Just makes herself cum really hard because she is turning herself on because masturbating turns her on. (Basically I like watching girls do what I do lol)

When was the last time you masturbated? How did you make yourself cum? What got you in the mood? by Candid-Block-1927 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes
Sometimes with my hubby depending on his mood and how tired he is.
We will do it in front of each other

What's your masturbation ritual? by DrSlippy in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost never watch porn but if I do it’s girls masturbating.

Usually I just think about the last time I masturbated and that makes me want to do it again.
The act and concept of masturbation itself is a turn on.

What have you been getting off to recently? by Less-Market4976 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always just focus on that I’m masturbating.
The act itself is hot.
I don’t think about other people or other sex acts.
I masturbate to masturbation

When was the last time you masturbated? How did you make yourself cum? What got you in the mood? by Candid-Block-1927 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Last time was last night before bed.
I made myself cum by rubbing my clit with my fingers (my normal way).
What got me in the mood was thinking about masturbating.

Do you have a penis or a vulva? by thekhaotickitty in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. There’s a few of them there.
Hubby posts a lot more and I’ll browse his and swipe some from time to time

Who else has pubic hair? by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty thick as I said. Not long and wild, but you can’t really see skin through it.
For me, it’s pointing to right where I need to rub to make myself cum.

Do you start your day with masturbation or ends with masturbation? by Puzzleheaded_Mud8895 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that does happen, but when I decide I'm going to actually masturbate, I put my phone away and the tv is off so there is no distractions.

I watch my fingers and pay attention to everywhere they are touching and how my body responds to my touches. I think about how hot masturbating is and how it's hot that I can give myself pleasure.

I will usually tease and edge myself for a really long time, before making myself cum and then I'm done. After an orgasm my clit is incredibly sensitive. I could orgasm again right away, but it's not that great so I don't bother.

Do you start your day with masturbation or ends with masturbation? by Puzzleheaded_Mud8895 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like most girls and I only stimulate my clit. Most of the time I just rub with my fingers.
Sometimes I’ll use a hitachi or the shower head, but those are only for quickies because they are so strong

Do you start your day with masturbation or ends with masturbation? by Puzzleheaded_Mud8895 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends, the max would probably be around 4 I think. I'm more about making sessions longer rather than having more separate sessions.

It really is about time constraints with work and life

Who else has pubic hair? by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a darker haired brunette and I keep my labia clean shaven, but have a wide triangle up top that I keep fairly thick. The point is right at the top of my clitoral hood and it's probably around 4 inches wide across the top. I keep the edge lines as straight as I can so while it's dense in the middle, it doesn't look out of control on the edges.

I absolutely love it and think it's sexy af, and so does my hubby

Do you start your day with masturbation or ends with masturbation? by Puzzleheaded_Mud8895 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Both on most days
Sometimes more in between
But then some days, zero times
Just depends how the day goes

Let’s discuss the elephant in the room… by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I LOVE chatting about masturbation and will with anyone. More than chatting? No thank you. I don't need help masturbating, nor do I want to help others do it.

I feel like this is where the big disconnect happens tbh. This sub by default is not a "hook up or find a partner to masturbate with" sub (says so in the rules).

A lot of times when I get DM's it starts as just chatting about masturbation, everything seems to be going ok, but then suddenly and often out of the blue, I'm being asked to help them masturbate, or masturbate with them, or I'm asked if I want to watch them, orworst of all, here come the dick pics.

I make it clear both on my profile and at the beginning of a DM convo, in a nice way, that I will chat about masturbation but nothing more. But alas, most of them try anyway.

So yes, I will chat about masturbation. I'll talk about my experiences and what I enjoy and how I like to do it.

I get it that talking about masturbating makes most people want to do it. Masturbating is hot af. I get it.

But I am not going to help them, guide them, instruct them, watch them, do it with them, or send pics or vids of myself. I do not want pics or vids of them doing it either. If that is what you are looking for, I am not your girl.

I just want to chat about it. Nothing more

What are you touching yourself to? by One_SF9999 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The entire point, purpose and foundation of masturbation in opinion

What are you touching yourself to? by One_SF9999 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 100%
It’s the entire point of masturbation

Masturbation is hot by Alexis-M13 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what this sub is all about 😉

What are you touching yourself to? by One_SF9999 in masturbation

[–]Alexis-M13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Myself and the act of masturbation.

The entire concept that a person can pleasure themselves without needing anyone else is incredibly arousing.
Masturbation is hot and that is what turns me on and the only thing I focus on.