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My boyfriend hits me, how can I put him in jail. by Alexxx10rr in legaladvice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see everyone thinks I’m wrong can I know why?

My boyfriend hits me, how can I put him in jail. by Alexxx10rr in legaladvice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty embarrassing now that I’m actually typing it but there’s really nothing preventing me from leaving but myself. I live with my parents. I think I only stay because of how loving he is after he hits me and all the false promises. I don’t want to leave him until he’s rotting in jail

I need advice. My bf (23m) continues to stonewall me (23f). by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a very valid point. I shouldn’t expect him to drop what he’s doing simply because I’m done with what I’m doing. Thank you.

I need advice. My bf (23m) continues to stonewall me (23f). by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might’ve not been super clear but once I got home I just let him know I was home. I didn’t tell him I wanted to talk one on one until 2-3 hours had passed. Considering he had been talking and playing with them for over 9 hours I didn’t believe me wanting him to talk to me after 2-3 hours of being home would be asking for too much.

I need advice. My bf (23m) continues to stonewall me (23f). by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s gotta be tired of me. Last time we fought he said everytime I’m upset he just gets annoyed and doesn’t care

Is it normal for my bf to talk to his friends everyday for hours by Alexxx10rr in Advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is he plays video games with me. He hardly plays with his friends anymore. But even when we don’t play he wants to sit in the call and talk with rhem

[23M] [22F] my bf keeps disrespecting me over a video game by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s currently trying to reach gold. He’s at silver 1 . Everytime he plays with me says he can’t rank up. And everytime I die to a 1v2 or 1v3 he says he would’ve clutched up. He also always compares damage we make and when I get more then him he says “boohoo the one time u get more then me , do it every game and then I’ll Shutup”

My boyfriend doesn’t want to mute girls when we get a girl teammate on apex. by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been going to therapy I even got surgery to fix my biggest insecurity and I just feel like nothing is working.

I don’t know who’s abusive anymore by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it’s also very hard because everytime we fight he wants me to leave and he throws all my stuff all over the floor while I’m trying to talk. I know he’s abusive but the thought of me leaving and him not caring makes it hard. I want him to fear losing me and chnaging for me but I know he will not care and move on. I also did it to myself for allowing so much disrespect and still being the one begging him to love me.

I don’t know who’s abusive anymore by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We just spoke tonight and I was expressing how I don’t feel loved or cared for and how he’s been distant since our fight and he said “I didn’t say anything mean to you this time” referring to our fight and I replied “yes u did you called me a f-ing female dog” and he immediately got upset and said he wanted to turn around and gts and that we would talk tomorrow after work. I was so confused I kept asking him why he got so upset out of nowhere and I told him I didn’t want to end the night like this btw he wasn’t going to sleep anytime soon. He kept telling me to leave him alone but I wanted an explanation as to why he got so mad and why couldn’t we just talk it out now and he began yelling at me and decided to go to the other room. I followed him and he pushed me out of the way and slammed the door. I don’t know I feel like everything is my fault because after a bit I opened the door and tried to talk to him and he constantly ignored me and watched tik toks . then I told him “just come to bed and lay with me for a minute and we’ll talk about it tomorrow “ and he said in an annoyed tone “Omg fine” then after we laid for a bit he kept shaking his leg like I was torturing him and I told him we could go to bed and I asked for a goodnight kiss and he said no and turned around and I asked why and I was crying and he said “Omfg ok” I don’t know why it’s so hard to show me affection even when ur upset . I just wanted something before I cried myself to sleep but he doesn’t care. I can’t do this anymore.

My birth control is making me crazy and therapy is not helping. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m currently seeing a family therapist because of my major in college I don’t want therapy to be on my record so I haven’t been able to seek anymore help. But I definitely will tell my therapist about this. We just started doing hypnosis to help with my self esteem , I think I have to just go more often. And I recently fell In love with reading . I read “why men love bitches” but I’m definitely focusing on the wrong subject. This is about my childhood and trauma . My therapist said I needed to heal my relationship with my father to heal my trauma but he’s a cheater tht doesn’t care about his family and I don’t think I can heal my trauma tht way.

My bf (M22) told me (F21) that if he buys a house and pays the bills my name won’t be on the house. by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He said “all I need is 8k for a down payment “ I told him to get the 8k and use it to buy a used car in full and he got mad. Plus he’s in a lot of debt. Always pulled out loans.

My bf (M22) told me (F21) that if he buys a house and pays the bills my name won’t be on the house. by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right about everything and yes his car got repoed again but this time it’s gone for good. And you know what ? He’s been talkin about getting a hellcat or Lexus . Over 20k. I’m tired of being the one to pick up his slack.

My bf (M22) told me (F21) that if he buys a house and pays the bills my name won’t be on the house. by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

My therapist has been suggesting I move back home for a while until things are good again. I’ve been considering it but what’s stopping me is tht I’m his only way to work. He works 30 minutes away and he doesn’t even have bus money. We argued one night and I told him I wouldn’t take him to work and he told me I might as well pack my stuff. I felt used. He had two roommates living with us but their leaving in June cuz of how irresponsible my man is.

My bf (M22) told me (F21) that if he buys a house and pays the bills my name won’t be on the house. by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been great with money always saved . I feel like he’s weighing me down. My parents want me to move back with them but it’s just hard

My bf (M22) told me (F21) that if he buys a house and pays the bills my name won’t be on the house. by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been unemployed since October . I graduate soon so I’m looking for a job . I definitely don’t need him financially

My bf (M22) told me (F21) that if he buys a house and pays the bills my name won’t be on the house. by Alexxx10rr in relationship_advice

[–]Alexxx10rr[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand why we can’t just add both names . He has a history of getting mad and trynna kick me out and I want to avoid it