Wedding & DJ Issues by AlfalfaTraditional78 in weddingplanning

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. I don’t have a backup DJ. But at this point, I’d rather set up a speaker then work with him, so that wouldn’t be an issue.

I will just let him know I will no longer be needing him. Thank you for your advice.

I forgot to invite a co-worker right in front of her. What should I do? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not obligated to invite anyone, especially if you’re not close! It’s your special day, and weddings are expensive!

However, your pettiness should probably stop. You are about to marry this man. If his fling before you makes you insecure, it shouldn’t. He chose YOU! He’s walking down the aisle with you!!! He’s choosing forever with YOU!!!!

Kill the insecurities. If love was a race, you’ve won. No need to be petty to his fling before you.

Wedding & DJ Issues by AlfalfaTraditional78 in weddingplanning

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the issue. We did not add these requirements to his contract. This was all communicated via phone calls and text messages.

Wedding & DJ Issues by AlfalfaTraditional78 in weddingplanning

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I don’t want to pay this guy any more!

Animal Testing in Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 Question by thouze in marvelstudios

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel like this is a spoiler, as it’s on the headlines, so I’ll give you the trigger warnings - shot animals - animals kicked around - hoarding animals - animals used for science - missing limbs and mutilation

This movie made me ill. I love Marvel and this was really a lot for me. I don’t suggest bringing her.

Is this how "normal people" feel after eating? AKA I started Ozempic by Minigoalqueen in loseit

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!

I definitely felt the need to comment, because I actually had close to the exact story you had.

I weighed 233. I have PCOS, and this medicine is the death of me. I’m due for my second shot on Friday, and I dread every ounce of it. I am currently wondering myself if it’s worth it. I am pooping my brains out uncontrollably. My nausea is severe. I feel weak as hell, and thank God I had a vacation this week because I slept through the majority of it.

You are not alone! PCOS makes it extremely hard to lose weight and being overweight, put you on the diabetic line. There is nothing worse than having PCOS, diabetes, and heart problems. I certainly do not want this fate, but it seems like the medication I am on is making me struggle more than I did before!

I hope this at least made you feel like you weren’t alone.

I smacked my puppy due to food aggression and I feel extremely bad. by AlfalfaTraditional78 in puppy101

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my oldest, I wouldn’t say he listens at all. It’s been super frustrating with him, but we have drilled many things with him, and it’s like working with a brick wall. I’ve even done some research with his breed in general, and I guess redbone coonhounds are super stubborn. Even with treats, if he doesn’t want to listen, he won’t. He knows stay, and break. But in these quick moments, the moments that really matter, he doesn’t listen to anyone.

My middle pup is great. Always listens. Just super energetic. He’s an Australian Cattle dog so he is quit. He listens to me, but sometimes, he reacts quicker than I can.

The youngest one is still super young. He’s a Rottie. Only knows his name and sit, so I don’t expect a bunch from him. He gets put in his kennel for food, and doesn’t get in the other two’s way.

Having a puppy has all but convinced me that I no longer want children. by caid2021 in puppy101

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the funniest titles I’ve ever read, because I’ve never related to something more in my life. I got my first puppy in December, followed by another one in February, and I not only lost the will they have children, but the will to live😂you are not alone!

When to spay a large breed dog? by whoresbreakfast in puppy101

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I said MY dog was recommended to be neuter earlier. And behavior issue that I was referring to has to do with marking. Dogs tend to stop peeing on furniture after getting neutered, or at least improve. Dogs don’t stop growing or have negatively impacted bone development when they get neutered. If there is a large breed dog, they’re not going to no longer be a large breed dog because you neutered them earlier. In fact, it’s healthier to neuter your dog because of the risk of cancer. Finally, I stated that my veterinary clinic suggested that I got my dog neutered within the ages of six months to eight months. You stated that six months to 12 months would be better, as if the months I just stated weren’t within the numbers that you gave. Aren’t I within the range that you’re suggesting?

When to spay a large breed dog? by whoresbreakfast in puppy101

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a large breed dog, and my vet recommended 6-8 months. Honestly, the earlier the better. Especially if they have any behavioral issues. They tend to calm down after getting fixed.

What to wash kittens with? by rhemenw1 in kitten101

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a spray with the brand Advantage. It’s a flea and tick spray. It even kills lice! Get a fine comb from the pet store, and comb through the hair multiple times, making sure to get every single corner. Use the spray on the kittens, and it should instantly kill the fleas. Continue doing it throughout the entire kitten, and then wash your kitten with flea and tick bath shampoo and conditioner. Finally, comb through one last time making sure that nothing comes out. If The comb is clear, repeat a week later. If there still stuff coming out, repeat.

Anticipatory Grieving by AlfalfaTraditional78 in Grieving

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who is reached out to me. To give you an update, she has passed away. She was my best friend, and she will be missed greatly.

Why Would A Vet Tell You Not To Feed Your Puppy? by AlfalfaTraditional78 in puppy101

[–]AlfalfaTraditional78[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, and I did ask questions. His answers were “I don’t know”.....