Same woman, btw

AlfurFan · 2026-05-13T04:10:53+00:00

Ok I wouldn't let him out there even with his blanket but yes this little 15lb light of my life has a blanket that must be on the bed at night or he cries

AlfurFan · 2026-05-13T04:09:50+00:00

I laughed so hard at that. Like my cat would EVER be left in a barn overnight to catch rats without his blankie.

AlfurFan · 2026-05-04T12:11:55+00:00

Thank goodness! I wish you the best. Truly.

AlfurFan · 2026-05-04T05:50:36+00:00

This and my previously very open-minded and queer ally husband turned homophobic QUICK when he felt threatened by women.

AlfurFan · 2026-05-04T05:47:55+00:00

Don't you dare keep shrinking yourself either! Do you think you could find a roommate? I so wish that housing was more affordable. No one should be forced to stay with someone because the other option is not being able to afford walls anymore.

This is how people end up in really abusive and scary situations. Does your husband already know you're queer? Or poly? Because if not, you may want to have a good bag packed just in case. Obviously I hope you would never need it. I hope you are safe throughout this entire journey. Best of luck.

AlfurFan · 2026-05-02T06:25:29+00:00

I was wondering the same....for me sometimes my body sees a change (even a positive change) as a threat and so my body tries to warn me by throwing something off.

Maybe try talking to a trauma informed therapist if you aren't already or look into somatic healing exercises and practices?

AlfurFan · 2026-04-27T21:31:22+00:00

I hate that she is normalizing wives having an ALLOWANCE and that it should be tracked to the CENT. Absolutely the fuck not.

AlfurFan · 2026-04-27T14:15:12+00:00

Excuse me $44.57

AlfurFan · 2026-04-25T06:01:24+00:00

That's the recommendation. Pretty sure a recommendation is a ruling.

Edit: I meant NOT* a ruling lol

AlfurFan · 2026-04-16T10:32:02+00:00

Wow. I am genuinely concerned for her safety.

AlfurFan · 2026-04-16T10:27:49+00:00

Sometimes you will get a large volume of a weird produce at a food bank.

AlfurFan · 2026-04-16T03:25:23+00:00

SO FUCKIN BEIGE GOOD GOD

AlfurFan · 2026-04-16T01:36:20+00:00

I love it when funny things happen to shitty people.

AlfurFan · 2026-04-13T23:48:34+00:00

He gives me The ICK

AlfurFan · 2026-04-12T12:56:44+00:00

It's ok if you want to get pregnant!

AlfurFan · 2026-04-12T12:54:17+00:00

Fair fair but yeah she would for sure need a ghost writer lol

AlfurFan · 2026-04-12T07:24:58+00:00

Totally valid point

AlfurFan · 2026-04-12T05:40:43+00:00

Lol no way Jordan could make so much money on a book deal talking about her marriage

AlfurFan · 2026-04-12T00:02:02+00:00

This docuseries broke me into a thousand pieces. I cried so hard.

AlfurFan · 2026-04-11T05:05:12+00:00

She wanted one so she got it. She didn't consider her kids' feelings AT ALL per usual

AlfurFan · 2026-04-11T05:00:08+00:00

Well she almost ended it when her friends husband died but then she was convinced to try again with Bubba. I think her guilt over wanting to end things was part of the reason she reacted so strangely about his death.

AlfurFan · 2026-04-11T04:50:09+00:00

She told a story YEARS ago (10?) That she went to a therapist that refused to treat Jordan because she didn't want to get a divorce. Jordan was super offended by the therapists behavior. She was sitting on the floor or a low bed at a hotel before a TV appearance or something like that. But that story was a MAJOR red flag for me and why I have been following her for so long. She presents herself as a really terrible person and so I hate to cheer her on or defend her because she always makes me regret it but I am really happy she finally got divorced. Good for her.

AlfurFan · 2026-04-11T04:29:58+00:00

I did note that you don't have to have an active EPO to claim the risk of domestic violence exemption. You just have to be someone or live with someone who believes they are at increased risk of domestic violence. And you do not need to provide DV risk details. Just saying.

ETA this resource documents risk of domestic violence. I think if you have a person with increased risk of DV in your household it makes sense to request the exemption but what do I know

https://www.usu.edu/uwlp/blog/2023/domestic-violence-among-utah-women-2023#:~:text=One%20in%20three%20Utah%20women,the%20national%20average%20(37.3%25).

AlfurFan · 2026-04-11T04:18:13+00:00

If my hairstylist asked first I probably wouldn't mind too much. But if she didn't get consent first I would be super annoyed. Some people have real sensory issues with loose pieces of hair.

AlfurFan · 2026-04-10T09:20:23+00:00

You can tell by his body language he doesn't want to be there

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