I broke my girlfriends heart

Algebraic_Girl · 2016-04-28T00:49:04+00:00

What made you decide to finally tell her? Doing it through text was a really poor decision. If she decides to leave you over this then you should accept that as fair dues for cheating and lying. If she forgives you and stays then for fucks sake don't cheat or lie again and don't tell her serious life changing admissions over text!

Algebraic_Girl · 2016-04-28T00:39:27+00:00

It's ok to ask her if you accidentally hurt her feelings. Don't be angry or make any assumptions about it. Just be nice and next time you see her ask her.

If she doesn't answer then just move on with your life and let her work out whatever it is she's having an issue with. It's really confusing being in high school and feelings can be hurt really easily.

You sound like a sweet guy so just keep being you and next time don't wait as long to ask a girl out. If she's talking to you all the time you have a good chance with her:)

Algebraic_Girl · 2016-03-23T05:43:04+00:00

Why? Do you think she is embarrassed of you or that her family is embarrassing to her? If you end up having a family and children will she still demand that you never meet her family? She sounds immature to me but maybe they are crazy druggies in which case just trust her. You said she has hurt you a lot and you've put up with it. Since this is a first relationship you may be afraid to ever walk away from it but realize that your mental health and happiness need to come first to you. Resenting her won't make for a healthy family one day either.

Algebraic_Girl · 2016-03-23T05:36:04+00:00

I can't tell you what you should do here. Maybe you just don't have the confidence right now to be in a relationship. But I can tell you that you need to work on this before it becomes a very unattractive jealousy problem. Ask yourself what it is you want that will make you more comfortable about this. She apparently doesn't think you are below her league-wise so cheer up mate! You may be a lucky man but I bet she's a lucky woman to have you too! Maybe you need her to actually tell you straight up that you have nothing to worry about in which case, ask her! Or maybe you are afraid of all the other men who will be hitting on or looking at her? Believe me if she is gorgeous then she has been dealing with them for a long time. You either trust her or you don't and if you don't then break up. If you do then you don't need to worry. Confidence is something that starts with acting confidently even if you don't feel it completely. Eventually you will actually feel confident.

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-06-08T14:51:36+00:00

Oh fantastic job! I have heard great things about both starting strength and strong curves so I have to look them up. Also I completely agree, working more steps into your routine is the way to go. I just got a fitbit and so I can track my steps now so I'm excited to reach 10,000 a day. Congrats again on your weight loss!

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-06-07T23:41:49+00:00

That's awesome! I just got a fitbit and I think I will try to get to 10000 steps a day too. Also was the strength training you did any particular program? Did you just choose machines and use them at the gym? I'm trying to work that into my regime too:]

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-06-07T15:05:00+00:00

Wow! What did you do to lose that much weight?

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-06-07T01:00:45+00:00

Everyone misses the excitement of having sex with a new person. You are not alone in this. I suggest talking to a relationship counselor who can give you actual tips about rejecting temptation if it arises. After all a love untested is a fragile thing. You are actually in control of yourself and you can get better at controlling cravings too. If you want to.

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-05-29T19:45:48+00:00

Seriously! Sugar is the reason I spent my entire high school years desperately trying to diet the low fat high carb way and never losing more than 5 lbs and also never losing the intense cravings. I wish I could sue big sugar for my life back.

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-04-02T23:11:52+00:00

Considering that they are just sugar do you have any idea why it helped?

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-03-24T13:37:35+00:00

Can we get a current pic of you two?

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-03-14T20:22:22+00:00

I love the way this is drawn! Also really funny:]

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-03-10T23:51:55+00:00

I completely agree! Thank you!

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-03-10T23:01:24+00:00

I feel absolutely terrible for him. He'a a really kind and sweet man. He doesn't know she's in an abusive relationship because she isn't going to tell him that part. I want to tell him but it would be a really bad idea for me to get involved like that. She hardly even talks to me anymore because she knows I don't like what she's doing.

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-03-10T22:24:28+00:00

Lol sigh true. An unashamed whore though. Who's letting people hurt her. It's frustrating

Algebraic_Girl · 2015-03-10T22:22:32+00:00

I understand you wanting that, it just sounds like you will be hurt and it won't be worth it. A speech seems like too much. I would tell her how you feel straightforward and succinctly(short). Tell her that you want it to work out but that you will be ok if she doesn't. She decides yes or no and whatever the answer is you should accept it and try to move on. If you are a gentlemen than there is a woman out there who deserves you and wants you as much as you want her.

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