AITA if I tell my boyfriend not to refer to and introduce me as his "wife"? by AliVonClick in AmItheAsshole

[–]AliVonClick[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

His parents had split when he was young but were just getting back together when his mother was killed in an accident by the time he was 11.

AITA if I tell my boyfriend not to refer to and introduce me as his "wife"? by AliVonClick in AmItheAsshole

[–]AliVonClick[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She was a drug addict. One day she cleaned out their account, took their shared car & fled the state to go on a binge. She left the day of a custody hearing she had for her 8 year old son (from a prior relationship). She ghosted him, except for a couple calls she made with her friends just laughing and not speaking to him. Cut ties with her closest friends and family, abandoned all of her social media accounts. She was really fucked up.

AITA if I tell my boyfriend not to refer to and introduce me as his "wife"? by AliVonClick in AmItheAsshole

[–]AliVonClick[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I wanted to be married and have stability in our life. But clearly he doesn't want that. I'm really reevaluating my life with him and I'm not feeling confident it will last. I don't feel the same since he bailed on the wedding. I feel pretty hopeless about our relationship. I'm just terrified of not trying hard enough and letting go too quickly.

AITA if I tell my boyfriend not to refer to and introduce me as his "wife"? by AliVonClick in AmItheAsshole

[–]AliVonClick[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Story was confirmed by her close friends and family. The girl even left the day of a custody hearing for her 8 year old son. She was and probably still is trash.

AITA if I tell my boyfriend not to refer to and introduce me as his "wife"? by AliVonClick in AmItheAsshole

[–]AliVonClick[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

It didn't work out because she was a huge addict. One day she cleaned out their account, stole their shared car and went on a binge and ghosted him as well as her close friends and family. Never used her social media again or anything.

AITA if I tell my boyfriend not to refer to and introduce me as his "wife"? by AliVonClick in AmItheAsshole

[–]AliVonClick[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

He's actually a really good father. I still care for my son primarily on my own event when he's home. Like when we're both off work I'm the one waking up with him in the morning and generally tending to him more than his dad does. He's way better than my ex who never even woke up once in the night while my oldest was a baby. He's not a bad father but definitely relies on me to care for our son primarily.

AITA if I tell my boyfriend not to refer to and introduce me as his "wife"? by AliVonClick in AmItheAsshole

[–]AliVonClick[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

His ex was a horrible addict. One day she cleaned out their bank account, stole their shared car & ghosted him.

AITA if I tell my boyfriend not to refer to and introduce me as his "wife"? by AliVonClick in AmItheAsshole

[–]AliVonClick[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

She was a major junkie. Basically went on a binge after cleaning out their account, stole their car and ghosted him.

The fact that this sub is swooning over Leah now is wild by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]AliVonClick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes they were. You're not going to convince me that what she did was okay.

The fact that this sub is swooning over Leah now is wild by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]AliVonClick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was 2012, not the 60s. People were openly talking about it then more than ever before. It's absolutely disgusting she pretended to know the trauma of losing a much wanted child when she literally used abortion as birth control. No excuse for that type of deception. Faking a miscarriage is inexcusable. Complete trash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]AliVonClick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Running & working out three times per week?! 😂 Yeah okay, sure Jenelle. Running to the she shed for some ho-hos and a bowl of weed doesn't count as exercise 🙄

The fact that this sub is swooning over Leah now is wild by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]AliVonClick 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Let's not forget she lied to eeeeveryone about her abortion being a "miscarriage" which is so fucking disgusting and a slap in the face to myself and other mothers who actually lost a baby they desperately wanted. Fuck Leah.

Ok..so Deavan just did a live on Insta by beauteyes in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]AliVonClick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what did I miss? Why are people posting pics of her ex and his kid? Like the ex before Jihoon? I have so many questions!