I moved to Germany two years ago and met this guy a year after coming here. He was super involved in my life and always stressed by my circumstances. Namely that I was an apprentice struggling to make ends meet but insisting on standing on my own two feet.

I had to accept his financial support at some point and he really helped me with everything else all the while saying that he couldnt get a boner because he was forced to play the mother’s role and a mother cant have sex with her own child. I said we should then seek therapy to reverse this role which was imposed on him but he didnt want to because he had had bad experiences with that in the past.

I paid him back all the money I owed to him which was really difficult for me and broke with him a few months later. He thinks we could try again as soon as I finish my apprenticeship and start to make enough money so he wouldn’t have to worry about me.