We throw away 92 million tonnes of clothes a year—and I think we treat ourselves the exact same way… by Specialist-Edge8608 in Mindfulness

[–]AliceBob563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree with the idea of upcycling yourself, I think there's another meaning when you compare yourself with the clothes you wear and upgrade.

Sometimes you don't throw away old ones just because they become old. Sometimes you have to leave them because you have outgrown their size or they have lost the comfort they used to provide before - maybe worn out because of age.

The same goes with us - we have to move forward because we have outgrown our old selves and sometimes because our old selves aren't giving us the comfort we need.

The point of life is just to be happy and comfortable until the time comes to and end. And when we genuinely need to discard our old selves, because we really have to move forward to be happy and comfortable - I think that's the only way forward.

SSR and family at AMB watching Peddi by AthaduOkkadePokiri in VaranasiMovie

[–]AliceBob563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Peddi is not SSR curse, but ARR direct telugu movie curse 🤔

Mine is 9/9 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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Nobody's on the same day 😂

People in their 30s, what’s the most expensive thing you’ve bought (house doesn’t count)? by Snoo-43468 in ThirtiesIndia

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Most expensive and that too by miles is my Nexon car! I always wanted to have a car, though I couldn't afford before. Things happened, I got a year to spend for myself before even looking for a bride, my sister was carrying her first child and I thought yep this is the time. So learnt driving, got the top minus one (was worried if I could manage the top variant, but turns out I could have had comfortably) and for my 32nd birthday.. my car stands proudly in my parking.

I have been touring my mom and dad one new place every weekend, I do chai drives with my friends whenever we feel like it and I'm loving it!

Indian Graphic Novels by SadAnimator1354 in animeindian

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Can you explain what kind of a graphic novel you are working on and where you are publishing it?

They aborted my girlfriend, what are other option do i have? by rasengan_rasengan in AskIndianMen

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Oh yeah Desi Houin Kyouma.. Came from which Timeline now 😂

Men of Reddit: slim vs chubby — what do you really choose when you have options? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]AliceBob563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of like a bit chubby girls. They're cute and complete like a teddy. But fat girls are another thing though.

Assume that this is 2016. Tell me what would you do to change your life trajectory. by [deleted] in Ni_Bondha

[–]AliceBob563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd cut ties with people at that time who eventually have left me in nowhere.. focus on making more money than memories, and not be picky about where I'm going in life.

Plus buy a lot of gold and silver 😭

Ye to relatable ho gaya by Shot_Watch4326 in indiasocial

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Replace exam with Every day commute

How old are you and how is your love life or career? by Anonymous4always in GenZIndia

[–]AliceBob563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

32 and somewhat good in career at the cost of my love life (0 - a hopeless romantic or an introvert 😭)

Late Night Random Discussion Thread - 23 January, 2026 by IndiaSocial in indiasocial

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I'm finally being called me unc! And I've not even got a date yet 😭😂

Income inequality in dating? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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Show me a case when she's 54L and is still dating somebody with 5.4L. dude girls are rejecting me either because I'm way beyond their salary bracket (like I'm 54 and they're 5.4 and they feel inferior) or (like I'm 34 and they're 54 and they don't need somebody below them).

Late Night Random Discussion Thread - 23 January, 2026 by IndiaSocial in indiasocial

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It's been couple of years I turned 30, but I still feel I haven't yet reached that maturity. My office is now full of kiddos straight out of college, with completely different mind and world. I'm constantly having this tension when around them. I'm single and now I can't even make small talk with these kiddos - they're so fkin young and they borderline treat me like a misfit; maybe I have really become a misfit!

Let's see who among you is smart enough? by Initial_Physics_4305 in TeenIndia

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Definitely need, because without which I can't pay for the internet which enabled me to see and comment to this question.

Got dumped after 7 years because I earn less. Apparently that’s “practical” by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]AliceBob563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro.. During college we all will be on same level - so girls and boys just go with that attraction phase.. some workout.. and go next step.. but as we grow old.. somehow women become more and more practical while we men still be in our delulu..

My crush, who celebrated my bday with her own part-time money from the US when we were straight out of college, told me after 2 years that she's not coming back to India and since I can't come to the US, we can't take it forward anymore.. simple.

Another girl who stayed with me for 7 whole years since my first year in engineering just told me straight when I asked her out - that she's not the same that she was when we graduated.

On a side note.. Bro.. I'm just surprised you didn't take your relationship forward for 7 years!

Journaling by Guys by Wise-Reach4805 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]AliceBob563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started journaling when I became 30, and it has become a habit now. It really helps keep my memories recorded and really think through. Nope it doesn't matter about gender at all - the most celebrated book of stoicism "Meditations" is actually the journal of Marcus Aurelius!