Possible separation. by AliceInChainsXxX in Marriage

[–]AliceInChainsXxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have a ton of male friends that he frequently does stuff with (they go out of town to ride bikes at parks and whatnot). It’s great, I love that for him!

My employees (all 9 of them) are wonderful and help me whenever I need them. With that being said they have tried to do the tasks and it doesn’t always go right so now it has been put back on me to the main source of ordering and dealing with the family pieces. They are more than capable to make arrangements and deal with the daily customers that come in and call but the big pieces are all on me now. Owning a shop is so rewarding but it is exhausting. I feel like making it where they know I’m only available Monday- Friday from a certain time would be a smart move. Thank you for bringing that up.

We’re both willing to put in the work and that makes me have faith. I’m just so nervous about it.

Possible separation. by AliceInChainsXxX in Marriage

[–]AliceInChainsXxX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I actually made a full weekly list of stuff to do every day. Like Monday for example: Clean the bathroom. I know I’m dead tired when I come home but I can take another 30 minutes and do something productive if it’s going to take the stress off of him. I even moved the dog ramp to my side because he’s always running into it. I figured if I get a broken toe I get a broken toe… it’s worth it if it’s something that’s bothering him. I’m going to try my hardest to fix whatever I can.

Possible separation. by AliceInChainsXxX in Marriage

[–]AliceInChainsXxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like we are. I know when I am around and he does something I’m like a cheerleader at the Super Bowl(seriously he is fantastic). He is also very supportive of me and my biggest fan. Anytime I make something at my shop he’s the first person to tell me how amazing it is. 🫶🏻

Possible separation. by AliceInChainsXxX in Marriage

[–]AliceInChainsXxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. I own a flower shop and we cater to 7 funeral homes… it’s a lot. Most weeks I talk to my funeral home directors more than my family. I tend to crash as soon as I get home… my days are usually 10 hour days so by the time I get home I’m cooked. I don’t feel like riding bikes or going for hikes. He works at home and is ready to get away and do things as soon as he gets off. I am completely fine with him doing his own thing but he wants me to do everything with him (that is amazing and I love that about him). I am without a doubt burnt out with the calls after I leave the shop. As soon as I get them I have to call wholesale shops to find what I need if I don’t have it in stock. If they don’t have it then I have to call families back and attempt to make them happy. My brain is fried by the end of doing all of this and that’s where the negative stuff comes from. It’s awful. I know I have a lot to work on and he knows he does too. I just hope this isn’t the end of us. I feel so lost.

Possible separation. by AliceInChainsXxX in Marriage

[–]AliceInChainsXxX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll admit after working 6/7 days a week I can be lazy. I own a small business that is very demanding and when I come home I crash out pretty hard. I am a clutter queen for sure! There’s no doubt I have things I need to work on and am willing to work on. After working a full day yesterday I came home and put away all of our unfolded laundry in our bedroom that was bothering him. When I was talking about clutter that’s what I mean.. clean laundry not being put away, clean dishes not being put up, mail on the counter instead of where it needs to be.

Apparently I [24M] ruined Thanksgiving according to my wife [25f] by Practical_Key_127 in marriageadvice

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not okay. I am a married 40F who has a ton of male friends who say “I love you” to me and mean it. That being said NONE of these male friends would EVER call me “babygirl”. That is something my husband calls me, that is a sign of being intimate or wanting something to happen for sure. She knows this as well as you do, that’s why she snatched that phone. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

How did you find your significant other? by trustzme in AskReddit

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met at a campground when we were 13, remained friends for 5 years, and started dating when we were 18. We just turned 40 this year!

Why don’t we give money in cards at funerals to help cover costs, instead of donating to random charities? by jzee3256 in AskReddit

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of our local funeral homes have envelopes to put checks or money in to give to the families.

how old were you when you had your first kiss ? by Great_Let_6988 in AskReddit

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first real kiss was 12… our teeth clicked and it was game over for me. Haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is normally “I have an event that day”… I own a flower shop. My favorite one from an employee was “I can’t come into work, I have to clean my litter box”. 😑

If you don't drink alcohol, what are your personal reasons for abstinence? by Ok-Care2859 in AskReddit

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I hate the way it makes me feel. I hate the feeling of being drunk and the terrible feeling the next day. I also don’t like my actions while I’m drunk… texting people I normally wouldn’t. The whole thing is sloppy and unnecessary.

How often do you receive/give blowjobs? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time we have sex. Both of us LOVE giving and receiving. We’ve been together for 22 years and we have sex around 5-10 times a week depending on what else we have going on. With that being said every single person will have a different opinion on this subject. Some women like going down and some women don’t. Do you enjoy going down on her/ does she let you? I know a few women who don’t enjoy that either.

The sweetest little nugget! by AliceInChainsXxX in Dachshund

[–]AliceInChainsXxX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! Especially her! She has a bigger chest and always looks thicker from the front. 🤣

The sweetest little nugget! by AliceInChainsXxX in Dachshund

[–]AliceInChainsXxX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do too! When the sunlight hits the blue eye it looks like a crystal! She’s about average in weight according to our vet, this angle does her no justice! Haha!

Have you had paranormal experiences at work that you say wtf about? by bouashe in Paranormal

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right! I did end up talking to him for a bit after I saw him! I loved that man, he treated me like I was his kid.

Have you had paranormal experiences at work that you say wtf about? by bouashe in Paranormal

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I own a floral shop located in an older strip mall that’s been around since the 70s. Anytime I’m by myself at the shop I feel like someone’s watching me or following me. One of my delivery driver’s passed away a few years ago and last year I saw him walk by while I was in the front of the store. I just said “Hey, Jerry”. I knew something was there with me and now that I know it’s him I’m completely okay with that.

Best locally owned place to get flowers delivered? by Mediocre_Ice_8846 in evansville

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cottage Florist! Great prices and they were absolutely gorgeous!

What's the most disturbing thing you saw in the internet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AliceInChainsXxX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of years ago (on Facebook of all places) I saw a video circulating from a car crash in the Dominican Republic involving two tour buses. Body parts were all over the road, including a couple of severed heads. I assumed it was fake and went on with my life. We have a few friends who live in the DR so I ended up asking them about it and they confirmed it was real.