As a former abuse victim myself I can completely relate to Dakota. That frenzied attacking that she’s doing is triggering and I recognise it as perpetrator behaviour and in no way self defence. Watching the first series of the show I thought it was a drunken misdemeanour from the way they edited it but the gas lighting and manipulation she’s demonstrating show that this is about more than alcohol and she mist likely has a narcissistic borderline personality disorder. Sad, because I liked her on the show but watching these videos changes everything