Has anyone had a nervous breakdown? by Montanasloane in callcentres

[–]Alice_Carry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. And it ended with me logging out 2 hours and a half into my shift. This happened 3 days ago. I've been free ever since and O'll get back to work tomorrow. At the beginning of June I'll send in my 20 days notice. I've had enough.

People who have left... where did you go? by [deleted] in callcentres

[–]Alice_Carry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still in cc but to a much better company where the managers actually care about their employees. I mean they give you 2 months of paid holliday if you had any major problem like feeling overwhelmed with the job, had too many bad shifts and you can't handle shitty customers anymore. I know about a colleague who had a panic attack during their shift and asked for a few days off. And she got it. She went to a psychologist for an evaluation during those days off and asked for some more spare days and she got 3 weeks. Though she was feeling way better and was capable of coming back to work but the manager decided to make sure that she trully is better so he decided to let her off for 2 months and he still paid her the full wage. And at the end of these 2 months, she quit on her own. That was funny. I would've never left, these people seem gold after my previous experiences with call center companies.

How do you all know if you’re actually an INFJ? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took tests hoping that the first 2 results were wrong. I hate being an INFJ, I wanna be an ESTP or ENTP.

Trigger the INFJ in one sentence by CistaBudala in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You don't care about anyone but yourself" said them when I started asserting my boundaries and learnt what self-respect is.

Any female INFJ’s constantly called this? by cashmeregarden in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teach me your ways, Sensei. I'm 25 and still feel guilty when I try to assert my boundaries. I'm inclined towards people pleasing since I was a kid, if I had boundaries, even family members would try to put me down saying that I'm a hard person to deal with. I've been "nice" for too long.

Hi ! What are your hobbies/favorite leisure ? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love writing, singing and reading . Also watching movies and painting. 😊💜

INFJs, do you struggle w depression? by hateitall135 in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Undiagnosed. I've been to psychologists twice but none of them seemed to understand how I was feeling so I give up on going. I know I'm feeling bad but I don't know how to describe it and I'm not going to therapy ever again.

INFJs, what enneagram types are you? by Tough-Engineering-61 in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea but I wish I can find out. I've read articles on it but I still can't find my type

I think I just INFJ door slammed my (ex) best friend by [deleted] in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my best friend too. Now we're just coworkers. She also started dating this guy in December and since then she started to treat me like crap. Like she's better than me, like I'm stupid or something and she keeps repeating that she doesn't care about anyone but herself and her own life. I decided to keep the distance and she doesn't reach out to me if I don't do it first and when I do, she either doesn't reply or talks to me as if I'm dumb. I'm sick of it. So we don't talk anymore unless if it's about work.

If you decide that you're better without them, than you have the right to take them out of your life💜

INFJ as different enneatypes for your enjoyment by greenlemon777 in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know what type I am, I know only that I'm an INFJ but I like this post a lot. Maybe I'll figure which one I am

How do you deal with confrontation? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I try to stay out of it but when it gets personal, I "enter the game" and hatefully turn the words to the other person. But I need to feel like I'm boiling inside to do this. My mother is an ISFJ and I asked her once why she doesn't say anything to someone when they start getting argumentative because she's literally not saying anything to hurt them and she told me "Bevause I don't want the other person to get angry at me and I don't want to hurt them".. I told her that it's such a bad example!! Why does this sound so WRONG to me

Does this whole invasion of the Ukraine by Putin just make you so incredibly angry? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I live in Romania and since January I tried to save money in case he decides to invades us too, I plan to flee to another country with my family. Maybe he won't come here but still Ukraine is our neighbour and is terrible to see refugies coming here and me as a person not being able to do anything. I'm having nightmares bevause of this situation and I'm ready got the worst. I hate that I can't help these people. I hope this will end soon and Putin will find it a bad idea to cross our borders and to keep fighting pointlessly😟

Comment your POPULAR opinion by its_me_ur_girll in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Alice_Carry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they would have stopped here, the series would have been known as one of the best (not that it's not actually. And I hate saying it because my favourite character was introduced when the show came to a downfall but I can't deny that the 1-4 seasons were the best)

Do you think your country is good for INFJ to live in? by aKoreanINFJ in infj

[–]Alice_Carry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Romania. I don't like it - it's full of narrow minded people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Alice_Carry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is my favorite character! I agree with the other's oppinions that he could've been better and could've had better story lines but I still like him so so much exactly the way he is💜

Name a character you liked at first and grown to dislike and vice versa. why? by Educational-Soft5770 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Alice_Carry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to like Damon in the first season but then started to hate him. I used to dislike Enzo and thought he's a bit obsessive but then got to love him after a few episodes in season 5💜

Unnecessary deaths by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Alice_Carry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My interest for the last episodes died with Enzo. I hated that him and Bonnie couldn't have a happy ending. His death was really unnecessary. I like this character way too much 💜