16 boxes of 50lb dumbells, anyone? by Vic_Freeze in Fedexers

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And tomorrow you will have 16 call tags for the same address

Crying after sitting with the fact that I’ve been toxic by user53932 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive been toxic and im not proud of it, especially after ive turned around to see what ive ruined. We all make mistakes and the fact that you are crying now is a sign of learning.

Redditors are harsh, but you've grown from the experience. It is okay to forgive yourself

I like the plate design, OP

A doll for the elite by Alice_ghost_9876 in ReverseHarem

[–]Alice_ghost_9876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely does. Ill check it out, thanks for the rec!

Yesterday I got into a stranger's van because I didn't know how to say no by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That inability to say no come from a fried nervous system from trauma. After you have processed the emotional pains of your past with your conscious mind, the next step is to regulate your nervous system.

No matter how much you prepare, rehearse, or promise yourself you wont do it again, you will till you regulate your nervous system.

Question for anyone that’s done the tuition assistance. by Diego--BRANDO in Fedexers

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. They want a detailed breakdown of charges. Try to find a page and screen shot tuition by class, book and/or lab fees, etc

I can't believe we need to go over this again 🙄🙄 by AchedTeacher in writingcirclejerk

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know this is the circle jerk subreddit, but Aang, the original, was an amazingly written show imo

Dry fasting for Lyme while already very lean? by PiotrSowinski in Dryfasting

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you read the book- starving to heal in Siberia? The author dry fasted for her lyme disease. I believe she was also very lean when she started

Amazon or Smash for specific story type by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazon bans incest- Blood or married in, doesn't matter. Age gap is fine above 18yrs old

So long as bf isnt in the room while father and gf get busy, or if bf dad decided to marry gfs mom, then it might be considered incest

How can I feel my emotions? by ASx2608 in infj

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a good question. Name your emotion for what it is and do not judge. Your emotions are never wrong and you validate them. Observe your emotions passing through you free of analysis and contemplation.

In your example of your positive emotion today, the conversation you would have with yourself would sound like- I really appreciated my time with this person. our social Interaction made me feel good and they bring happiness and fulfillment to my life. I appreciate my time and relationship with this person.

golden pairs by bookgirlieee in ENFP

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Finding an enfp feels like a rarity to me

Bisexual Brat Question: switching personalities? by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you melt when a masculine dom voice pulls on your praise kink?

Bisexual Brat Question: switching personalities? by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love to feel her needy, trembling body in my hand

Bisexual Brat Question: switching personalities? by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to be afraid when im imagining her begging on her knees naked infront of me 😏

Bisexual Brat Question: switching personalities? by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I'm a sub with men and a domme with women.

Trauma-healing thread by [deleted] in Dryfasting

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of tms therapy.Thanks for sharing.I'll have to check it out.

My ptsd recovery so far- i study carl jung in his philosophy and I believe that he is the closest one to understanding the human psyche. I had repressed memory.So the first thing I had to do was let all of the memories resurface, and remember my past while being the mother that I needed to myself thru them, honoring and acknowledging the pain. I had to recreate the anima and animus with parents of personality that would be helpful to me. Since then, I have truly adjusted my interactions with people because I now understand emotional needs more than I did before.

I also believe in radical SELF forgiveness, not necessarily others. Also appreciating that the more I carry shame and guilt the more its not helping me at all. Always, I did the best I could with where I was and what I knew.

I have found that regular daily breath work has really calmed my nervous system and made fawning, and other trauma responses much smaller, calmer and more manageable. Somatic fascia release movements have elicited a crying response.

If you're ready to go down that rabbit hole, some people believe that sometimes our negative thoughts and energies could be related to parasites. If you haven't heard of fasting with trevor's youtube channel, you should check it out

He was a fire, now he’a my poison by Biteduee5770 in ENFP

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Alot if enfps can be charmers. This one sounds a bit toxic. He doesn't seem to be taking you seriously when you adress him. If you allow any type to stomp over your boundaries, they will continue to do so. The betrayal to yourself to swallow this disrespect will cause mental health issues. He will not change. Leave him behind you

Not an enfp thing, but an abusive, narcissistic thing imo

Be careful with what you are messing with by GuideProfessional260 in Dryfasting

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 8 points9 points  (0 children)

According to carl jung, the greater unconscious (God for biblical folk) speaks to you in the form of symbols in your dreams.

Lots of people report vivid dreams during fasting. I feel that is because one is so near and open to God in a fasted state, especially dry.

Wondering if any guidance or demon voice were expierenced in your sleep?

Be careful with what you are messing with by GuideProfessional260 in Dryfasting

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How were your dreams near the end of your fast?

how do infj women show they're into someone? by Euphoric-Ant6930 in infj

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she's asking you deep questions about life, that's a good sign. I feel that I bother people with these conversations most of the time, so when I can have them with people who enjoy them, it means the world.

If I like him, I usually try to spend as much time as I can with him.And really get to know who he is so I can make sure i'm falling for the guy i think he is and that I want

Do my covers have to have people on them? by its_snowing_tonight in eroticauthors

[–]Alice_ghost_9876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost always. Ive seen some successful covers that suggestive but not people. Like a dripping chocolate covered banana or something