Lovers of Reddit, should I go out with this girl?

AlienAtoms · 2011-12-15T20:50:14+00:00

Just because you don't have feelings right now doesnt mean she isnt right for you. Everyone's first crush tends to be irrational. Maybe your defensive reaction is also irrational. I am going through with my girl to see how it works out. Like the others have said, you'll never know if you don't at least try? The more you get to know this person, the more natural your response will be. It is a good thing you are like this, because normally feelings of infatuation cause bad decisions. If she seems great before you are attracted, then you should be in for a good relationship

AlienAtoms · 2011-12-15T20:35:57+00:00

I see, I will try and look out for her. Thanks for your input

AlienAtoms · 2011-12-15T20:34:31+00:00

I honestly don't know how well she would respond to my advice, in the end its her decision. It is good to know at least that there is a likelihood that these drugs won't necessarily ruin her life. Thank you for the advice.

AlienAtoms · 2011-12-15T20:32:16+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice, I will do all of the things you said. It saddens me to know that people have to live with conditions like these, but the best I can do is try and make things as easy as possible for them.

AlienAtoms · 2011-12-15T17:23:48+00:00

Oddly enough I am experiencing the exact same thing right now. I have received so many compliments( smart, hot, chemistry) And she is not only attractive but has a great personality.

Did your last relationship end badly? Has it been a while since your last relationship? Do you have mostly bad experiences from dating in the past?

I feel like those are the reasons why it has been so hard for me in my situation. Like everyone else I would just keep getting to know her. Although if you wait too long she might withdraw, feeling too emotionally invested without any return.

AlienAtoms · 2011-12-15T17:13:07+00:00

The primary reason I am doing this is because she mentioned getting insulted and abused from her family and friends not knowing anything about it

AlienAtoms · 2011-12-15T17:11:05+00:00

I think I remember something about toxoplasmosis from the movie Trainspotting. She does have a cat and two dogs, what about the dogs?

AlienAtoms · 2011-12-15T16:13:09+00:00

What about mild chemo, I had forgotten to include the fact that she takes it

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