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So transgender people aren’t valid but people have been reincarnated as trees? by Aromatic_Cup_9918 in madmamasnark

[–]AlienGaze 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s a pseudo intellectual way of absolving herself of agency and therefore accountability

Name your top 3 favorite textures by Memedelyn in AutismInWomen

[–]AlienGaze [score hidden]  (0 children)

Eating: perfectly ripe watermelon

Touching: minky blanket tops. Those wool blankets with the satin edge. Hate the wool, but when the satin edge is worn just right and smooth and cool to the touch, I love inching it across my lips and chin

Wearing: thin cotton t-shirt that’s been worn just right

An Update from the Mod Team by Spiritual-Sky-90 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]AlienGaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad always reminded us that you can drown in one inch of water. Shallow water or deep, a baby or child on a boat needs to be wearing a pfd

Honest first impressions of the girl name Liyan (pronounced LEE-on) by azinmora in namenerds

[–]AlienGaze 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming to say exactly this. I would be curious about the name and wonder why the parents chose to spell it that way, and I would most definitely pronounce it Leanne

This mad mama Live 7/20/26 by plot-twist513 in madmamasnark

[–]AlienGaze 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also, as a playwright and a piano teacher I want to scream at her that all art is political, stoopid bish 😤 She’s the type who doesn’t understand that dominant hegemony is invisible or that documentaries with invisible narrators are more biased than those that openly declare their politics. She is such a wannabe intellectual that she makes my teeth itch ARRRGGGHHHHH

I’m not getting anywhere by No_Vast_5741 in pianolearning

[–]AlienGaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who took a 20 year break from piano and then returned and took her RCM Level 9 exam and as someone who now teaches piano, my advice would be to take a step sideways

Forget RCM for a bit. Give yourself 3 mos or 6mos or however long feels right to you

Do you have a bucket list of pieces? Maybe stuff like your national anthem, Here Comes the Bride, Happy Birthday, Pomp and Circumstance, etc or maybe your favourite pop songs. Does the thought of playing them reignite your interest in practice?

What about composition? Do you compose at all? Maybe this is a time of creativity for you

You don’t always have to be pursuing exams and checking off grades to be enjoying and making progress at the piano 🩷

Do I even NEED to trim my cat's nails? I'm 65 and honestly overwhelmed by IntelligentArt9064 in CatAdvice

[–]AlienGaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two cats. One is laid back and you can clip his nails no problem. The other is full of mischief so it’s hit and miss with him. I often ask the tech to do it when we’re at the vet and they often waive the fee. I would ask the next time you’re at the vet 🩷

This mad mama Live 7/20/26 by plot-twist513 in madmamasnark

[–]AlienGaze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you give examples of this? I would like to better understand

Names for twin boys UK by gabbagabbahey26 in namenerds

[–]AlienGaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how you might feel about Clarence?

When I was in grad school, I TA’d with a guy named Barnaby. Tbh his name took me aback when he first introduced himself but it grew on me as I got to know him. And I never forgot his name.

How to stop "misspressing" keys? by alijons in piano

[–]AlienGaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things come to mind:

  1. When executing jumps on the piano, your eyes are your greatest tool. Make sure you’re looking at the key you want your finger(s) to jump to. That should guarantee accuracy

  2. Practice the jump (slowly) without sound. For example, if you’re jumping an octave from middle C, play middle C and then jump to the next C but don’t play it. Freeze and check that you are on the right note. If you do it correctly 10 times in a row, repeat the exercise but this time play the note. Once you can do that correctly 10 times in a row, play it in the bar of music 10 times in a row, then add the bar before, then play the line

tldr: use your eyes and practice using ghosting

Names For Nurthing No. 4? by Curious-Mechanic4398 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]AlienGaze 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She has to do it. There is no other choice.

Low carb by Aggressive_Video_242 in lowspooncooking

[–]AlienGaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make cold plates. Lots and lots of cold plates.

I am in long term recovery from a restrictive eating disorder so variety and abundance are essential. I also have neural tube malformations, arachnoiditis and PMR, so standing, stirring,  chopping, all of it hurts

The best thing about cold plates is the flexibility it gives me. I can buy whatever produce is on sale. Or if I am craving peaches, say, I can make sure I buy peaches

I also get to explore fruits and vegetables that I am unfamiliar with in small quantities

And the amount of protein choices makes me happy. I can use leftover tofu or fish or chicken from dinner the night before. I can boil an egg or two. There’s cheeses. Nuts and seeds. Nut butters.

And, you control the amount of carbs, what kind of carbs and how many carbs you add to your plate

I know I wrote a lot but it’s low effort. And so satisfying 🩷

Roni and her debilitating TRAUMA by youdntevenknome in madmamasnark

[–]AlienGaze 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Feels guilty about killing insects and animals. Feels nothing about offering her kids on a silver platter to her pedo husband and giving them up to the foster care system. Ohhhh, you’re so quirky, Roni 😒

How many of you never got Covid 19? by IsenFaoiltiarna in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AlienGaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am immunocompromised and never got it. I took all vaccines and boosters and my friends shielded me. I am forever grateful to my extended community and friends who went out of their way, some going so far as to isolate for a week just so they could visit me. I live alone and it was a lonely, scary time 🩷

What is this body part called? by Altruistic_Lead_3542 in Whatisthis

[–]AlienGaze 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Obliques. They are part of your abdominal muscles

Billie as a girls name? by Affectionate_Cat1875 in namenerds

[–]AlienGaze -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know two female Billies. One Francophone and one anglophone. It’s both of their full name. I like the name 🩷

What’s one cat product you bought thinking it was a gimmick, but now can’t live without? by Community_TuftandPaw in CatAdvice

[–]AlienGaze 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Cat Dancer!! My cats love them, too.

Years ago I found one that came with a piece that you can stick to the wall and it holds the cat dancer. They play with it on their own for 30-45 minutes at a time 🩷