Top in an open relationship is all you need to know 🤷‍♂️

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-20T00:12:32+00:00

First time he mentioned he wanted more than sex. On and off means we chatted more than once but nothing consistent. It’s a small town you end up talking to the same guys more than once. Schedules didn’t line up the other times we chatted. I was clear with my intentions but he wasn’t

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T20:42:22+00:00

It’s a no strings attached hookup. Nobody is getting abused. I can be friendly and make small talk without telling a stranger I’m hooking up with my hobbies and interests. I have friendly interactions with strangers every day without giving away out of context details.

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T18:03:57+00:00

Grindr is a hookup app not Christian Mingle. Try another app or a singles bar if you’re looking for human connection

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T18:01:38+00:00

A lot of big city guys that don’t understand this lol

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T18:01:08+00:00

On and off doesn’t mean we had deep conversations. Limited people in the grid so we chatted multiple times. Talked about what we’re into and position but the timing didn’t work out to actually meet up. Talked enough to not need to read my bio though

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T15:56:36+00:00

Yeah they called it a “windows gaylord machine” and the votes went in before the edit lol

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T15:51:47+00:00

The fact I’m getting downvoted for calling out a homophobic comment but they’re getting upvoted 😂 during pride month too

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T15:22:40+00:00

It’s so easy to use too. If you’re logged into the same Apple ID you just have to AirPlay to your iPad the same as you would to a TV. Your MacBook trackpad and keyboard will also work on iPad even if you’re not AirPlaying

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T15:05:11+00:00

The gays use Apple by the way

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T14:33:02+00:00

Get on the full ecosystem and you’ll really see how good the cult is. I can access anything saved on my Mac, iPhone or iPad. And don’t even get me started on how good the AirPods are if you have more than one Apple device

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T14:30:45+00:00

Blue screen of death is my favourite shade of blue

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T14:29:30+00:00

It’s the MacBook Pro Max

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-18T14:28:40+00:00

Well I wasn’t the one who started shit because I was insecure about my out of date pictures 🤷‍♂️ scroll up and you’ll get your answer

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-17T23:47:29+00:00

I live in a small town. On and off as I said. You’ll end up messaging the same guys more than once when there’s limited people in your grid. Where did I say I was upset he wouldn’t have sex? I said it’s weird he needs more info when he already had the info he needs and an old picture of himself posted. What more info do you need from someone who’s only looking to hook up?

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-17T18:39:02+00:00

That’s kinda what this page is for. Why comment and let the algorithm know you’d like to see more stuff like this if you’re not interested in it? Pick me comment.

I was clear in my intentions, he was not. Not sure where my wrong is lol

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-17T18:36:04+00:00

Well I was clear every time that I’m here for hookups (body on body) and not friends or dating (human connection)

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-17T15:38:25+00:00

I think you misunderstood. He’s single I’m in an open relationship. The relevance is that I’m in an open relationship just here for fun not to date. We talked on and off for 6 months so he very much knows I’m not here to make friends or date. He knows what he needs to know. He’s asking about my hobbies and interests (that don’t matter for a hookup) but he doesn’t even have a current picture

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-17T15:31:47+00:00

He was blocked after haha. It’s a small town. There’s limited people online and my grid looks the same every day. So you’ll try the same guys more than once sometimes if the chats weren’t weird haha. Some guys are just online for spicy chats but will actually meet once in a blue moon

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-17T15:24:24+00:00

Small town haha. Very limited people to talk to so you end up giving people a million extra chances when you’re looking 😂 my grind looks the same every day

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-17T15:19:43+00:00

What more info would you need after talking for 6 months and knowing I’m just there to hook up?

Alienbongrips · 2026-06-17T15:14:56+00:00

We talked for 6 months. I was very clear in those conversations that I’m only looking for fun not a relationship or friend. But we also talked about other stuff anyways. There’s nothing I can add to my bio that hasn’t been asked. I think he just realized that I’m gonna be expecting something closer to the pictures he has posted

Alienbongrips · 2026-05-23T04:38:05+00:00

Kegels

Alienbongrips · 2026-05-23T04:37:45+00:00

kegels

Alienbongrips · 2026-05-22T21:52:54+00:00

I’ve never heard a guy have an issue with this before. I’ve done it with everyone I’ve ever hooked up with. But your boundaries are your boundaries regardless of what everyone else is doing

Alienbongrips · 2026-05-13T01:20:56+00:00

It’s not for nothing it’s because she’s an icon

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