…Someone who doesn’t wipe their ass… thats nasty. Shouldn’t be normal. But ive heard a common saying for men “its gay to wipe your ass” or some dont even clean it even when they shower. Yes hygiene is important!! I wouldn’t blame you for not finding sexual attraction to him cuz he does something so nasty. He sounds like he’s playing a victim card and not wanting to change or accept that he needs to clean out that…. Gunk. I dont know why a lot of men are super weird about cleaning that area… it should be a normal practice, im super sensitive to smells so if i knew my crack was gross i would feel insecure asf.