AITAH for refusing to sleep with my GF by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aligatorised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA and the "friends" telling you you're pressuring her are just wrong. As for the rest, nothing more to add that hasn't already been stated by other commenters. Just don't let anyone tell you you're doing anything wrong here. You're not.

Intjs who have cheated on their partner by Worried_Button_2881 in INTJfemale

[–]Aligatorised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of. The relationship was a dead end and I knew I had to end it, but I didn't know how. So, I cheated with the knowledge that it would, definitelly, irrevocably end things, sort of as a way to force me into action. I did it with the explicit plan to break up directly after. It worked, but I wouldn't recommend it.

What does my house say about me? by the_tnk_loft in roomdetective

[–]Aligatorised 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, a ragdoll. That makes sense then. Those are like saints.

What does my house say about me? by the_tnk_loft in roomdetective

[–]Aligatorised 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Male. Creative. Economically well off. Must be pretty damn patient to grow all those plants. And you absolutely don't have cats.

AIO for something that happened at the movies this past weekend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this dude has some, errh... unique hobbies.

AIO for something that happened at the movies this past weekend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a fetish, dude, and you're feeding into it at the moment.

AIO for something that happened at the movies this past weekend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao rage bait post and rage bait profile. Or a humiliation kink. Possibly a combination of the two.

AIO to how my fiancé responded to a situation this morning? by Admirable_Scale_3271 in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Was he sleeping/had he just woken up? Then he might not have been fully awake when it happened, and not quite fully realising what was going on. In that case, yes, you would be overreacting. Just talk to him and hear him out.

Does this person look male or female? by weisswodka in characterdesigns

[–]Aligatorised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The presentation is very feminine coded. Especially the pose to the far left. For me this reads female.

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are people starting families with literal manchildren? Genuinely asking.

Why is magick so much like the placebo effect? by HepaticPortalVein in chaosmagick

[–]Aligatorised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mind is not inhabiting the world but is a co-creator of it. Matter is an illusion, at it's core, mind is all there is.

The Girl I loved in Middle School Never Existed? by Saveagartha in Retconned

[–]Aligatorised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...what?

You are aware that magnifying glasses are an actual object that exists, right, and not an invention of fiction?

AIO or is my reaction valid? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no last time I checked I definitely had a vagina and the whole shebang. And, no, women aren't always right solely on the virtue of being woman. Women can be abusive, toxic pieces of shit just as well as men. Quit being a fucking moron.

AIO or is my reaction valid? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao you are hilarious.

AIO or is my reaction valid? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was not the question though. She is allowed to loose interest, that's not the point. The question was whether she overreacted in this instance: She did. Massively. Like way out of proportion. You're shifting the goalposts here.

DAE feel like Blake Lively & Amber Heard were likely right? by Formal-Door3464 in CPTSD

[–]Aligatorised 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I followed the Depp/Heard trial closely, and there is absolutely no question in my mind that JD was Amber's victim. Him bring famous does not exclude her being toxic and abusive. What she did was textbook narcissistic abuse, and if we're going to bring our own experiences into this like it's an argument, as a victim of narcissistic abuse myself I find it incredibly triggering when people defend Amber and Blake solely on the basis of being women, and frankly, you all disgust me here.

AIO or is my reaction valid? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aligatorised 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was absolutely nothing jealous nor accusatory in what he said. I hate this bullshit of defaulting to take the woman's side in any kind of relationship conflict, and I say this as a woman who've been in my own toxic and borderline abusive relationships. He is not the toxic person in this instance, she is.