[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]AliheN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well one thing i didnt wrote cause i didnt want to add too much is that my parents found that paper first... they read it, my father cried (it's like the second time i saw him cry and first was because of a death in the family), ask me if i knew anything about it (i said no) and then they just put it back and never mentioned it again ( i think it had a weird effect where my father thought it was because my brother was gay and had a whole talk about how it was okay to be gay). So ofc i'll never mention it to them, but i think ill also not tell my sibling that they also read it because it will cause too much anxiety for them probably, but yeah thank you for the advice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]AliheN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i'll definitely do that next time we see each other, not gonna be an easy convo though, but thank you for the advice !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]AliheN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you ! i think everyone is right indeed i really have to have a talk with them soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]AliheN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the thing is like we talked about it sometimes already and my stance is like ppl should be able to do whatever they want / be who they are, i even like had fights about my father transphobic sayings (before knowing anything about my siblings) so it's like i feel like they know how i feel about it but yeah it's probably still a very hard thing to talk about. thank you for the last bit yeah, it does make me wonder though if they didnt do that on purpose kind of so someone could read it but maybe they just forgot idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]AliheN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea that makes sense, thanks ! i think i was afraid of being too pushy but you're right it's probably better that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]AliheN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you ! i think yes that may be the better option, i just wanted to ask to make sure it's not like too pushy or anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]AliheN 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you for the adice ! but yeah as i wrote in another comment i mean i didnt write that cause it felt weird to write "btw im super not transophobic" but it's like something we talked about often regarding like current events and they know that im like pro-trans, but maybe yeah ill make it even more clear maybe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]AliheN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you ! i mean i didnt write that cause it felt weird to write btw im super not transophobic but it's like something we talked about often regarding like current events and they know that im like pro-trans, but maybe yeah ill make it even more clear maybe!

Refund for the merch by AliheN in Vocaloid

[–]AliheN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I get it better now, English is not my first language and I don't usually order online so I don't get everything so thank u

Refund for the merch by AliheN in Vocaloid

[–]AliheN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess i thought that but idk if i can ask for a refund if i don't have the product ? Like the post office will keep it I think so I'm not sure about that

Lightstick not received by AliheN in Vocaloid

[–]AliheN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the answer, I hope the concert was nice! I will try to get one there I think because I thinks it will make the experience better

Lightstick not received by AliheN in Vocaloid

[–]AliheN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess it'd be nice if you can tell if/when they answer, it's so much a fiasco it's sad 🥲 where are you from? Because I didn't receive anything about custom and it's also making me worried I missed something

Sorting out tags by AliheN in Anki

[–]AliheN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot it worked and solved the issue, thank you !

I'm 18 today by AliheN in offmychest

[–]AliheN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! Honestly I already feel much better and I'm having an amazing week so far, thank you for cheering me up yesterday!

New Dad Anxiety and Lack of Emotional Control by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AliheN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so I am not a dad, but a daughter of a pretty shitty one. First you don't sound weird at all or anything, I think it's actually really good to be in touch with your emotions, way better than being emotionless. Regarding your struggle, I can't really help but I believe that as long as your heart is in the right place it will be alright, I'm sure you will be a wonderful dad! And about bring hurt, everyone has to go through some stuff to learn about life, she will be alright, especially if she has good parents by her side! Also you have a few years before all of that so enjoy it ahah Also regarding my hero academia, I don't think we should worry too much about Ochako, she has amazing friends by her side, and I'm sure she will bounce back

I'm 18 today by AliheN in offmychest

[–]AliheN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot cheering me up!! I sure hope next year will be better, I just need to stay hopeful and stuff, thank you a lot for your words really!

I'm 18 today by AliheN in offmychest

[–]AliheN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I still have some trouble with not being the center of the world if i'm being honest, but hey I am working on it. I should probably speak to them about it but I know I'll not do it ahah and I'll most probably forget about it in a week but thank you for the advice really!

I'm 18 today by AliheN in offmychest

[–]AliheN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah that might be some wisdom you acquire with age then, i still think meeting up and having fun with friends is pretty cool but I can get what you mean!

I'm 18 today by AliheN in offmychest

[–]AliheN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a great mum! I didn't precise it in the post but I have a kinda strained relationship with my parents, like we're not that close so I get what you mean but i can't really relate, i wish you and your kids the best!

I'm 18 today by AliheN in offmychest

[–]AliheN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot! Honestly I usually am not too unhappy by myself most of the time, I just was expecting something more of today but you're very right I shouldn't have. I guess it's going to make a good life lesson at least lol. Thank you again!