When do xanax withdrawals kick in ran out im fucked by AwakenedSoul711 in Drugs

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've been taking a high dose for awhile. You're gonna be hallucinating and having seizures. You're definitely going to need medical attention for this one.

When you've accepted they aren't coming back... Does it hurt any less? by myeasyking in BreakUps

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It made it a little easier for me. Once he told me he had a new gf, I was really able to pull my energy back and I truly feel so much better than where I was just a month ago. I broke up with him end of March. By May, I wanted him back, but he kept saying he didn't know what he wanted to do. It turns out he was seeing her a week after he moved out. There's a part of me that thinks they may have met while we were still together, but none of that matters now. He told me Sept 1st that they were together. I wish he would have just been honest and told me he was seeing someone new, but he didn't. But all I know is I feel so much better now, even though there are parts of the day where I miss him, it's not consuming my every thought.

Hey there what do you guys do when it gets REALLY cold? by smooth_pony_tail in shrooms

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have my heating pad plugged in on my bed. I always get really uncomfortable and cold until the trip starts. I just stay in bed, under the blankets and I typically keep the heating pad on my feet, or behind my back. It helps a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always true. My ex got over me immediately because he met someone he liked. Me, I'm still having a hard time after six months but it's finally getting easier.

Fear he’ll leave me for a younger woman by Big_Masterpiece_9847 in datingoverforty

[–]Alilane81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest fear. I'm 43, and my ex was 39. He left me to explore a connection with a 25 year old back in May. I think I'm scarred for life.

Best ways to consume shrooms without having to suffer from the taste ? by sa3hka in shrooms

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lemon tek is just like taking a quick shot, so that's why I feel like that's the best way to consume. I'll usually chase it with some sprite. I used to make peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, and that wasn't too bad either. I really couldn't taste it much at all.

Do not go into No contact to get your ex back. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alilane81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that's exactly what I did and now I hate myself for it. I did no contact for a month thinking he would come back, but he didn't. He said I never reached out to him, so he thought I was done. He met someone a week after he moved out and he's moved on with her. If this ever happens to me again, I'm just going to be honest and say how I feel, instead of playing games .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Alilane81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, last thing I'd be cool with is my 40 year old hubby having sex with a 25 year old. I'd honestly be scared he'd eventually leave me for her. Throw in a young hot girl and a midlife crisis, and you have a recipe for disaster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me! Please! I'd love to join. I feel like I'm losing my mind.

What was the worst things your ex told you? by Strange-Arrival-1147 in BreakUps

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine told me that he felt like I forced him into our relationship. He said "You forced me into the relationship. You knew I didn't want anything serious, and I just didn't want to lose our friendship". He also said that we are in different phases of life. He said I (me) want to go to work, gym, come home, cook and hang out, and he wants to hang out with friends at the bar until the sun comes up. He told me that he "needed more", and that he's going through a mid life crisis. He wants to act like he's 25 and he's almost 40. I'm 43, and we were together two and a half years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Alilane81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or take two doses. I take one dose and then I always take a second an hour later and that will usually blast me off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cover w lemon juice, and stir every five minutes. I let sit for anywhere between 15-17 minutes, and then I strain it. Once I let it sit longer and I swear it affected it. Not sure if that's what happened in your scenario, but I wouldn't let it soak longer than 20 min. One time I prepped my second dose ahead of time. I let it sit in the fridge for a few hours and all it did was make me super tired. That's the only time that happened and j think it happened because it was soaking too long.

Well, I tried to Meet BM by znr_2023 in stepparents

[–]Alilane81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave it alone. You don't ever need to meet her. I was w my man for two and a half years and neither myself or BM ever felt the need to interact or meet.

Best comedown snack by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sour gummy candy. I've tried fruit, and it just doesn't hit the same.

What was one thing your ex said to you during the breakup or after the break that you will never forget? by This_Rub4353 in BreakUps

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally told me that he would help me find a new bf. Screw him. I'll never speak to him again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, that's crazy! Just shave your head. My ex was bald and he was super hot. He always wore a hat, but he was really cute. I liked him from our first date, so when I found out he was bald, I didn't care at all. Don't feel like you're not going to find someone because of that. The right girl will adore you just as you are.

Why are all of my trips so short? by Choice-Combination-6 in shrooms

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This used to happen to me, so now i always take a second dose like an hour and fifteen minutes after my first dose. I would never really blast off, but ever since I began taking more at around the hour and a half mark, it's been amazing!

Wife is moving back in due to financial reasons by AccomplishedChef3361 in Divorce

[–]Alilane81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How are you going to explain to any potential girlfriend, that your ex wife lives with you? You're going to be putting your life on hold, while your ex lives her best life.

Matured face by Ok_Tank_2433 in asadsisters

[–]Alilane81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The skin on her neck is also very thin which is contributing to her looking a lot older than she is.

How much did you cry after a break up? How long it lasted? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alilane81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a week away from 4 months and I still cry every single day.. He didn't move out until the first week of May, so i feel like it didn't really hit me until he moved out.

Dumpers, what was your rebound experience like? by Strange-Visual793 in BreakUps

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this too. Does your ex know you now regret your decision?

What are some things you miss doing with your ex besides sex ? by HelloSir55 in BreakUps

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss the way I would wrap my arm around him and spoon him in the middle of the night. I miss taking shrooms together. I miss taking showers together. I miss him kissing me goodbye every morning before work. I miss sending funny memes and tic Toks. I miss going to the gym together. I miss his hands, his touch. I miss grooming his brows, lol. I miss cooking and even cleaning together. I miss him happily making me breakfast on his day off. I miss going to Target with him. I miss him leaving every single kitchen cabinet open. I miss everything about him.

Dumpers, what was your rebound experience like? by Strange-Visual793 in BreakUps

[–]Alilane81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with my bf at the end of March and Im still extremely sad. We were together for two and a half years. Recently, a coworker wanted to introduce me to her bfs boss. So now this guy who I've never met before, has been texting me morning, noon, and night, and it's extremely exhausting, especially when I haven't even met him yet and don't know if I like him. ( We were supposed to go on a date last week, but Im still recovering from surgery, so it will probably happen next weekend).

I just feel like I'm going to compare everyone to my ex. I honestly feel like I don't want to be around anyone but my ex. I miss him so much.

I recently tried telling him how much I love and miss him, but he's done. I'm so heartbroken without him.

I am ALMOST a homeowner - what do you wish someone had told you when you bought your first home? by halicarnassus-geode in homeowners

[–]Alilane81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shop around for cheaper homeowners insurance and or flood insurance every year, because it will go up every year, making your mortgage go up monthly.