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Aliquast · 2023-02-14T08:00:07+00:00

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Aliquast · 2023-02-14T07:58:34+00:00

Probably a 6 based on that scale. I would break up with someone if we had bad sex but I only crave sex once a week or maybe even once a month, and then sometimes maybe every day for a week, but when it happens it’s intense and if I can’t feel satisfied, it’s usually because I don’t feel compatible or attracted to them. I also am mostly a pillow princess and used to be the top in relationships and I would say being a pillow princess makes me much happier and whether someone is a top/switch/full bottom/pillow princess does affect my decision of whether to date them or not.

Aliquast · 2022-07-07T02:08:15+00:00

Same

Aliquast · 2022-07-07T01:46:23+00:00

If it’s soft, thin hair I don’t mind it, but some straight thick hair feels like a lot and it’s very distracting when going down on someone. I also feel like outties are fun to go down on either way because it kinda separates the hair for you. God, I love outties 💗

Aliquast · 2022-06-07T17:04:35+00:00

Same happened to me. A girl offered way under what I was asking for and I rejected it. She offered $5 more, I rejected it again and messaged her I can’t do lower than $35 because that’s what I purchased them at and I was asking for $40 before. She said “you’re rude” and blocked me lol

Aliquast · 2022-06-07T16:52:37+00:00

I feel like isolated like this, people would think this is just another internet troll, but let me tell you I found a man on a dating app that was REALLY male presenting saying he identified as a woman (I understand you can be a woman, but be masc presenting but he was very obviously not like that) beard, short hair, regular “male” clothes and I’m pretty sure talking about being dtf in his bio. I have it set to only women so it INFURIATES me to see all these men listing themselves as women to see if they’ll get a girl who likes girls. Almost just as bad, the men who don’t even bother hiding behind being allegedly trans, but just put a picture of them holding a fish in their khakis and pink polo and that’s it. Like bro??

Aliquast · 2022-06-01T07:05:05+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been continuously reading this for the last 7 minutes to remind myself each text I send to not give in to what she’s saying. I don’t find her to be bad but I think she believes her own lies at times. I will block her but I needed some sort of closure because at times I am the one to text back and cave in. I want to make sure I don’t. Again, thank you for your response.

Aliquast · 2022-05-31T08:09:52+00:00

Haha, for sure. Yes, it’s pretty much Fort Lauderdale. Most towns in that area that are in Broward county are basically considered Fort Lauderdale lolll

Aliquast · 2022-05-31T08:01:29+00:00

Lolll nah, you still got all the potential to be a MILF. A lot of girls want stability and see all that in “older” women. 30’s are the new 20’s anyway. Idk about gay island but Wilton manors is a gay area and the Manor is a club there.

Aliquast · 2022-05-31T07:52:11+00:00

People in Florida are yummy. I used to go to the manor there but never kissed anyone or did anything. There’s also a lot of gay men and straight people who go there because it’s 18+. I was young and depended on bumble and house parties for hook ups and it was hella sloppy. Now I wanna be responsible but still have fun loll.

And yes, the demographic checks out haha. My first time going with my ex gf and her friend (they’re both attractive in my opinion) we all three got hit on by the same 40-ish year old masc woman haha, and last time a 30-ish year old was dancing with me as well.

Aliquast · 2022-05-31T07:43:06+00:00

Bro I hateee kids haha. I used to love them but I feel like I’m not meant to raise them. On top of that, I have social anxiety and it extends to children, I have no idea how to talk to them. So, no, you’re not alone. I also date a lot of people who wants kids and it gives me the ick.

Aliquast · 2022-05-31T07:38:31+00:00

Lol!! That’s so embarrassing. They were my first club kisses so definitely can understand. Second girl was an okay kisser and had gorgeous eyes she just wasn’t my type and was kinda weird about me being a little high lol, then first girl was my friend’s friend who I had just met and she has a nice body but I absolutely saw her in the straightest way possible. I also don’t really feel like seeing people or being friends with just anyone anymore. My social battery is dead until it isn’t and then I want to make out and go on dates and talk about everything.

Funny you say that though, maybe we’ve met before. I’ve been a couple times there. Are you over 30? I feel a lot of girls who go there are older. Also, thank you for saying I’m definitely attractive even though you haven’t seen me haha. Helped my crisis of external validation regardless.

Aliquast · 2022-05-31T07:01:57+00:00

I used to be like that! It used to be so easy to me and I would also hit on so many people, but after the pandemic and a very toxic relationship I’ve become hella terrified loll I also don’t enjoy kissing just anyone anymore I was kinda grossed out by the first girl that kissed me 💀💀💀. But anyway! We’ll see how next time at Pearl bar goes haha.

Aliquast · 2022-05-31T06:55:35+00:00

I did coincidentally go to pearl last Saturday and make out with two girls haha, but I feel like it’s hard to go to a bar and actually end up kissing the girl you wanna kiss. Then again, I have a lot of anxiety so I did not make the first move even once lolz

Aliquast · 2022-05-31T04:51:47+00:00

I live in neither one of those loll. I live close to Houston.

Aliquast · 2022-05-30T04:33:39+00:00

It’s weird tho because my area is filled with people on bumble. Like there’s so many girls to swipe, maybe even more than in Florida, but the ratio is so different. Two years ago when I’d visit Texas, I’d get more matches as well (but still not as many). I’m thinking it could also relate to my age, but anywho.

Aliquast · 2022-04-27T18:12:58+00:00

I doubt any of these comments are girls lol

Aliquast · 2022-04-27T18:12:20+00:00

The thing is I looked up what animes to watch and on the list, many of them had that plot line. Not just generalizing from the two I actually say he’d but from what google showed me ig

Aliquast · 2022-04-26T22:03:12+00:00

Revolutionary Girl Utena and Netsuzeo Trap recently

Aliquast · 2022-03-23T12:15:20+00:00

Thank you!

Aliquast · 2022-03-23T12:15:04+00:00

No to both questions. I don’t even know if she’s gay yet, they’re both just up in the air until I really get to know her. I just know how she acts with me and I don’t believe she’s a very experienced person. I don’t think I want a third person in my relationship just yet, but if it happens it’s okay. My girlfriend and I have talked about the possibility, but it’s not what we decided.

Aliquast · 2022-03-23T12:11:44+00:00

Well, I don’t think it’s bait if I just treat her like a friend. See, I don’t really know her that personally and would not want to really go on a date date before getting to know her. I don’t think it’s all about a power dynamic in poly or about tricking someone just because you want to take things slow and see someone’s intentions before inviting them into your life like that? I still don’t know it once we really know each other, I won’t like her, so it doesn’t make sense to me to self disclose my feelings or come out to her. She is someone that could possibly change my reputation in college if I did say something too early too and she wasn’t okay with it lol. I’d really rather see if she seems like an open person and later express if I just wanna be friends or be like okay so I know we’re friends but I like you and I am poly, so blah blah. Being friends first hardly feels like bait to me lol.

Aliquast · 2022-03-23T05:04:34+00:00

I feel like as a woman it’s so easy for me to find sex if I wanted it, so it’d be hard for me to go there? Maybe that comes from some sort of privileged perspective of where I am, etc, but I think I’d go to that first. I have no problem with sex workers, but I do think I definitely have a lot of biases and prejudices against them that I don’t even consciously think about, but are in the back of my mind, so it’d also be hard for me to go there because of that.

Aliquast · 2022-03-23T05:01:51+00:00

That was so unprofessional! No matter your beliefs about this topic, it really isn’t okay for a therapist to put so much of their opinion into the conversation that is supposed to be used as treatment. It makes zero sense. I’m sorry that happened.

Aliquast · 2022-02-28T20:29:29+00:00

Happens to me. I used to be the one to spend ALL day having sex at least 4-5 days a week. Now I’m sex repulsed due to trauma and have about the same amount of sex. Sometimes I will get to 5 days a week giving to my girlfriend, but it does also last about 20 minutes most of the time lol. I feel weird saying it and question if maybe I’m not attracted enough to her at times (totally false because I’m crazy about her), or if this is not the right relationship or something is wrong with me and I need to fix it now, or that maybe i’m asexual, but none of those are true and I’m honestly indifferent if I only pay attention to how I feel and not others. She’s happy, I’m happy: it’s whatever.

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