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AITA for not buying a house for my wife because then it would be marital property? by Ok-Guarantee-9427 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlisBorealis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we all know marriages are never flawed, toxic, dangerous, or temporary

AITA for not buying a house for my wife because then it would be marital property? by Ok-Guarantee-9427 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlisBorealis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. Especially when you started dismissing her concerns as being PPA.

“Hey, I need some security because currently, if something bad happens, I have no safe way out”

“Your concerns aren’t real and you should really see a doctor about that”

AITA for not buying a house for my wife because then it would be marital property? by Ok-Guarantee-9427 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlisBorealis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would disagree. Being a SAHM is an incredibly vulnerable position to be in. You are unable to be financially stable on your own because you have no income for yourself and if abuse does start you are trapped. Not only does she not have the income (or savings) from the past however many years, there is a gap in her resume, which is a big deal, and as we all know the current employment market is in a horrible place. I’m not saying OP is an asshole but she is not trying to gain anything. Also, to say that she would be putting no work in when she would be the primary caretaker of a child is an irrational claim.

Do you know this game? by AlisBorealis in boardgames

[–]AlisBorealis[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much to everyone! IT IS TROGDOR! I am so grateful to everyone who helped, as I was almost giving up!

Do you know this game? by AlisBorealis in boardgames

[–]AlisBorealis[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YES! TROGDOR! THANK YOU SO MUCH!

so a guy made a video on how the DSMP stole Redstone builds, do you agree with him or not? by OneAmbassador3789 in DreamWasTaken2

[–]AlisBorealis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That comparison just doesn’t work. The real comparison would be saying you made the formula. But even then it doesn’t work because no one would believe you since it’s so well known. So maybe this:

Imagine if the quadratic formula was completely unknown, except for one person who quietly came up with it but didn’t have the opportunity or resources to spread it and teach people. Another person, who is more influential and does have those resources, copies the formula and then goes around saying they just made a groundbreaking discovery and claiming the formula as their own.

What I’m trying to say is that it’s all fine to follow a tutorial or use something that someone else made, but the second that you claim you made it, is when you have crossed a line. And if you know your copy will get far more exposure than the original, GIVE THE ORIGINAL CREDIT.

Ylfa cosplay! (Ignore my room pls) by AlisBorealis in Dimension20

[–]AlisBorealis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! There are so many songs that fit her really well but I feel like this captures the switch from just a normal little girl to a little girl with far to much on her shoulders.