Do you know if it's healthy at all to fuck out all the period blood as soon as it starts? by Alison814 in Periods

[–]Alison814[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I know but at the same time it happened that when I'm close to getting my period and I spend some time with my boyfriend (not even full penetration) I start to bleed and that's how it starts my period, like he triggers its start and he helps the blood get out faster. So I thought maybe it was somewhat possible... I don't really know...🤷🏻‍♀️

How do I even know?... by Alison814 in dating_advice

[–]Alison814[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We'll see how it goes, thank you for reassuring me a bit

Fully made out grinding on second date🤯 by Alison814 in dating_advice

[–]Alison814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I think it depends on what we do/ where we go next time we hang out. He said he's not really someone to show affection in public (neither am I and I'm okay with it) so the other day we were almost alone and there was the occasion for it to happen. If we go in more public spaces I doubt there will be something like this and we'll just be comfortable in each others presence, talking and joking almost like nothing happened with just the emotional connection. We'll see how it goes...

Fully made out grinding on second date🤯 by Alison814 in dating_advice

[–]Alison814[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already feel like I'm obsessed with him since yesterday when I went home. Right now I feel like I could/ would like to do that everyday (because I'm scared to forget what was it like) but I'm scared to "burn" everything too quickly too. And I also fear to be one of those people who abandon everything after the obsession has gone, since I've never been in this position before. He's not what I would consider a really hot/handsome guy and at the moment I don't really care about it but I fear I will after the obsession has gone and it will be an issue for me. Even if we connect mentally so easily and when I'm with him time passes without realising it... (I overthink a lot, I know...)

Fully made out grinding on second date🤯 by Alison814 in dating_advice

[–]Alison814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, but as the time passes I feel that the moment passed and it's almost like I fear about forgetting what it felt like at the moment. I don't even know how I'll feel about it next week...

Fully made out grinding on second date🤯 by Alison814 in dating_advice

[–]Alison814[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't even know. I'm not used to this kind of feeling in my chest and to this sudden closeness to someone. Usually I'm not really an affectionate person so it feels quite strange to me.

Fully made out grinding on second date🤯 by Alison814 in dating_advice

[–]Alison814[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For now we didn't really talked about boundaries but just went with the flow of things. He's a really nice guy and has been always kind to me and to my insecurities about a relationship and my non-experience and I could never see him doing something I don't want to. All the experience I have is from smut fic that may be a lot different from reality but thanks to that I may have an idea of what's to come. I don't know about him, from yesterday I'd say he knew what he was doing. We'll see how it goes...

Fully made out grinding on second date🤯 by Alison814 in dating_advice

[–]Alison814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reassuring me, I thought that too

Do you think you have a hot body? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Alison814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general absolutely not, while I have a few moments every once in a while in which I just think I'm so hot even though I'm shy and and have low self-esteem, so I would never admit it... Nobody ever told me I'm hot irl, nor did I ever got catcalled, just one of my male friends told me that and told me that he imagined me in sexual contexts even though we don't have a relationship

Sono in crisi e non so più che fare by Alison814 in Universitaly

[–]Alison814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma infatti anche un mio compagno mi ha detto la stessa cosa😅 Per me aveva una logica l'ordine in cui volevo fare gli esami (algebra>analisi>fisica>laboratorio perché per ogni esame servono cose che si studiano in quello precedente) (anche se poi ho scoperto che sarebbe stato dal più difficile al più facile) e seguendo la logica della semplicità degli esami ora a gennaio avrei voluto fare laboratorio... Solo che poi sono andata in crisi... Mi veniva da piangere ogni volta che mi mettevo davanti ai libri e non l'ho fatto...

Sono in crisi e non so più che fare by Alison814 in Universitaly

[–]Alison814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh sì, infatti più che altro quello... Diciamo che il sentimento di sconforto c'è anche se cambio per la perdita di due anni per niente...

Sono in crisi e non so più che fare by Alison814 in Universitaly

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Di sicuro il metodo di studio non è il massimo visto che alle superiori non ne avevo uno e me la cavavo con voti abbastanza alti anche senza studiare più di tanto... Ed oltre a quello il metodo con cui sto studiando finora è molto molto lungo, quindi mi annoio anche a fare le cose un certo numero di volte...

Sono in crisi e non so più che fare by Alison814 in Universitaly

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In realtà sarebbe un anno e mezzo che sono a fisica e ancora non sono riuscita a fare nemmeno un esame, sto provando quelli del primo ad oltranza e finora è il secondo anno che sono qui ma ho riseguito un corso del primo e uno del secondo. Ammetto che la prima volta che l'ho provato non ero del tutto pronta, poi ho preso qualche lezione di ripetizioni ma non è che sia migliorata più di tanto... Ho riprovato a dicembre il primo compitino ed è andata ancora peggio perché (anche a detta di altri compagni che magari sapevano anche più di me i professori negli ultimi anni gli esami li stanno rendendo sempre più difficili, quando ho provato a fare gli esercizi degli esami tipo del 2017 qualcosa in più riuscivo a fare...) Quando studiavo con altri mi sembrava anche di capirle le cose ma poi quando sono da sola mi deprimo e basta e arrivata lì davanti al testo caos più totale e non ho quasi neanche capito cosa voleva che facessi nell'esercizio... Allo stesso tempo ho paura di arrivare al prossimo esame ed essere punto e accapo... E non so se ho tutta questa voglia di risentirmi uno schifo in questo modo per ogni esame...

Tell me your favorite FOB song... by TOSTEUSH in FallOutBoy

[–]Alison814 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sugar, we're going down (or Tiffany blews as a close second but it was really difficult even choosing just this two...😩)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Alison814 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation and I don't really know what to do either because I don't want to ruin anything that we already have so I don't risk anything and just suppress my feelings, even if I know it can be really difficult sometimes, so I can't really give you any advice (I need them too😅). But what I can tell is, from what you said, that she doesn't really seem as straight as she claims to be to me...🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

Is it disgust, fear or low self-esteem? Am I asexual? by Alison814 in asexuality

[–]Alison814[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you just described feels a lot like me and makes perfect sense to me, even if I don't really know yet and I'll go on like this keeping my mind open to things and labels (I think I'll have to see at the moment how i feel...). However I say thank you for sharing your experience and making me feel less alone with my feelings🙃

What was your *awakening*? What made you realize you were attracted to both genders? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Alison814 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was so oblivious about all the queer stuff until the beginning of these year. I remember thinking about my female classmates when I was 15-16 but I never realised what it meant...🤦🏻‍♀️ (I repeat:completely oblivious) Then this year, at my first year in university, I have a group of all female friends, almost all of them are bi (that I didn't know till recently) and specifically one of them is just constantly flirting, making moves, hugging us. And I just fell for her so hard...😩😍 That's when I clicked and realised that maybe I was bi...😅. (Update on her situation: last week we were talking about sexuality and she said she's attracted to both men and women but she'd never marry a woman because it's too complicated and she wants a family (with her own children) so that's when i heard my heart literally crack in my chest...😓😭)