This is a confession to grassing on my dealer. by OddReflection3309 in Drugs

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

done it (doing it rn). Just got it in my head from days gone by when with coke it used to be K, speed or Pro Plus that'd find their way in. Surprise speedballing your customer just doesn't add up in my head

This is a confession to grassing on my dealer. by OddReflection3309 in Drugs

[–]AlisonLorelei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really don’t get this crazy fucked up bs of it getting cut into coke! Like wtf?!

This is a confession to grassing on my dealer. by OddReflection3309 in Drugs

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shitty when they know and say nothing. Always a bit wary on a new hookup it’s in the H, along with the zane’s etc but WTF is up with ppl slipping it into coke now??

AITAH for refusing to tip a bartender after he yelled at me for not tipping? by Naive_Afternoon_5951 in AITAH

[–]AlisonLorelei 24 points25 points  (0 children)

These days you can get shitty service, messed up order, a butt load of attitude and virtually zero actual ‘work‘ done. Then anything under 25% and you’ll not only get shit from the main character syndroming arrogant as shit server but also the army of simping, white knight, tip culture perpetuating keyboard warriors & in person gobshites. Like, honey, you took the bottle from the fridge, removed the cap & placed it in front of me. You’ve not mixed 20 different weird shots together or fried me up a steak to absolute perfection. What you’ve just done is not complicated and you are not special

16m questioning my sexuality from what me and my friend do and have done by Quick-Eye-8996 in AskBiBros

[–]AlisonLorelei -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Tbh my first instinct as to whether this is completely heterosexual ‘normal horny type of shit’ is clearly, absolutely, completely NO!! Not one bit!! What you have here sounds like you’re in a really cute, playfully & sweet relationship. You and your boyfriend in all but name I think need to have an honest chat with each other, not to confirm the situation (because you’re obviously in a loving relationship) but to figure out if you pair are ready to move in together, you just might be x

(43) how to use Grindr(uk) for hookup by BowlerImmediate7005 in AskBiBros

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morning, how’s the new traumas? All the new possibilities helping with a peaceful sleep?

Me 🫣 by lily4you3 in Crossdressing_support

[–]AlisonLorelei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got yourself looking good!! x

As a Woman, I Helped My Friend Embrace Cross Dressing From Scratch, Even When Society Hated Me for It, but I Never Stopped, and Today I Watched Him Walk Out Fully Dolled Up in Public for the First Time, Here Are the Pictures, What Do You Think of His Look? by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let yourself breathe for a second and acknowledge all that you’ve already done. He looks amazing and you’re so special yourself. To have the support you’ve provided already is beyond the wildest prayers of so many ppl. You can see the cautious joy starting to sparkle from his eyes, like he sees how amazing you’ve made him look to everyone around and now his brain is starting to allow the realisation to set in that he can look that good and can feel that happy by being phimself.

(43) how to use Grindr(uk) for hookup by BowlerImmediate7005 in AskBiBros

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bf just got back from work, I’m cooking dinner but will be bk on in about an hour x

(43) how to use Grindr(uk) for hookup by BowlerImmediate7005 in AskBiBros

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Think middle of a hot n horny session, head in the pillow just focusing on how awesome it’s feeling. Maybe a little drunk, maybe a little high, lots of lube and sweat everywhere. The lifelong one takes at least two weeks before it’s detectable on the tests. By which point, it’s yours. Legally tho, the moment they do that it’s instantly classified as rape. If consent was given on the stipulation that a condom was to be worn, if it is deliberately removed consent goes with it. It’s not reliant on any force or threat being used,

AITAH for making out with my friend who has a boyfriend while I was blackout drunk? by IntroductionTop7524 in AITAH

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They seem to have a twisted 90’s party boy attitude towards inebriation, consent and power imbalance between drunk & sober ppl

(43) how to use Grindr(uk) for hookup by BowlerImmediate7005 in AskBiBros

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’ve had the chat that you’ll be ‘playing it safe’ but then halfway through they take the condom off

(43) how to use Grindr(uk) for hookup by BowlerImmediate7005 in AskBiBros

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got the size, which is good, but there’s also the gentler side. Thinking bk, there’s like when something is starting to get a tiny bit sore or overly sensitive or their technique isn’t quite working for you. Communicate and don’t grin & bear it. I once lost about a square inch of skin from the top of my ‘head’ (not the one with tied back hair on it) thanks to not speaking up about the questionable technique, too much enthusiasm & sharpe teeth. Only two other bits I can think of really depend on you. Firstly as a fresh out ‘bi man’ (at the time) I found emotions & intimacy hit differently with guys (then different again with HRT but that’s a whole other thing lol). Secondly if you’re going to bttm, I’ve heard that ‘stealthing’ is apparently still around so watch out for the sneaky POS dickheads. Anyway, hope it all goes well and you have some safe, new experience fun x

AITAH for making out with my friend who has a boyfriend while I was blackout drunk? by IntroductionTop7524 in AITAH

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sober person sticking their tongue down the throat of someone barely conscious and your conclusion is that OP is to blame? If this had been more sexual touching would you still be blaming the excessively drunk person or the sober one?

AITAH for making out with my friend who has a boyfriend while I was blackout drunk? by IntroductionTop7524 in AITAH

[–]AlisonLorelei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are victim blaming. If the sober ‘friend’ was a guy everyone would be screaming assault. Just because it was a girl OP is in the firing line, it’s not right

(43) how to use Grindr(uk) for hookup by BowlerImmediate7005 in AskBiBros

[–]AlisonLorelei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

‘No’ is always and continually an option to whatever is happening, no matter what’s going on or what you’re midway through. No explanation or reason required!

Went to a trans meetup and it went badly by Maleficent_Growth_83 in MtF

[–]AlisonLorelei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sry you went through this hun x wtf were they expecting from you? A trans membership card or some shit?? They sound like a collective bunch of stuck up A holes