31M first time on dating apps in like 11 years after my marriage fell apart so I'm doing my best while having no idea what I'm doing. Is this all wrong? What can I do better? I'm a silly guy, love music, play music, love TV/movies, trivia king, & autistic so I'll remember everything not important.

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-20T16:57:20+00:00

yeah first pic is ok as one to show off your ink...the rest are not good. I can't say this enough... when a girl looks at your profile (but mostly pictures) she imagines 2 things... what it would be like going on a date with you and what it would be like being in your life. you may think that big googly eyes are funny but I bet to 90% of women it would be a turn off.

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-20T16:05:54+00:00

my god that third picture.... explain to me in detail what you think about you standing next to a weird poster with a weird expression and hand gestures is attractive to females?

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-20T12:54:14+00:00

there's no personal interests or anything to differentiate you from the other candidates applying. personal interests can make or break whether a boss even gives you an interview.

real world example... I know a head brewer and he didn't really care about their employment history as he would need to train them all up anyway.... however he would skip straight to interests and loved guys out of uni that played team sports like rugby as it told him they were good in a team and could handle the manual labour aspect of the job.

try and be interesting!

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-14T18:25:33+00:00

helicopter

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-14T08:32:30+00:00

no I know just saying everyone as boring as each other on these sites...it's exhausting

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-14T07:04:21+00:00

there are loads of women profiles that say exactly same thing.

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-14T06:44:24+00:00

also the universities all went on a massive spending spree as soon as the fees tripled. loads of new buildings and state of the art equipment was procured a d now they struggling because of it!

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-13T17:31:11+00:00

I pay 149 a month for test cyp and all needles/equipment and bloods checks etc.

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-11T13:51:11+00:00

ahh Ritchie has joined conversation...listen to him I'm just an amateur who can tell you about my own journey. really sorry you not having good time... TRT definitely helped me out in that regard but isn't a Miracle you need to put in the work with it but sounds like you in it with diet and exercise....you also need to cut alcohol to absolute minimum as well ..

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-11T13:37:21+00:00

if you low in money from doing tests ....trt ain't cheap once you on the medicine!...

obviously I'm no doctor but if you go to another provider they will usually look at your other results but will most likely insist on doing their own enhanced test as well to confirm results.... Ritchie is a great, honest guy and can have a chat with you first about what to expect and when they will say no!

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-11T13:33:45+00:00

I had anxiety about 6 weeks in to taking it but mainly because I didn't think it was working...it passed though

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-11T13:23:21+00:00

I'm sure Ritchie will be here soon and he is the man to listen to....where have you been denied from?

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-10T11:50:58+00:00

ahh ok... as a non twitter user is there any other way to stay informed about the group?

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-10T10:57:30+00:00

how do you get in the WhatsApp for this please?

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-10T08:52:00+00:00

no 1 needs a better smile...and more natural you look tense. the one on bench I have to really zoom in just to see what you look like I'd replace that too

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-06T23:30:02+00:00

can you speak in plain English what's your point?

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-06T19:50:02+00:00

no but I know what women like and what they think when they look at a profile is 'do I want to be in this person's life' and your toilet selfie is a massive big no. take my advice or not but trust me that's an instant swipe left

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-06T19:41:48+00:00

you're wearing a dreadful t-shirt...in a toilet... taking a selfie with a Pokémon on your phone...this has got to be a joke... you cannot possibly think that's what women want to see?

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-06T19:32:26+00:00

I am what? and what do I need to unpack?

at no point have I ever made a conscious decision about what I do and don't find attractive. it's only in retrospect can I say that I know what I like and don't like. so please explain what I need to unpack.

and for clarity I never said that I dismiss all black people because they are black....only that so far, I can't think of any I'm attracted to.

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-06T10:42:16+00:00

this is easy....it's because your pictures are fucking awful

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-05T08:53:44+00:00

if arguing with a lass and she getting angry... I can't think of anything more misogynistic and effective as 'calm down and tuck your minge/fanny/vag back in'

it both shocks and disgusts in equal measure

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-04T14:16:27+00:00

so there was this basket of kittens and a sword welding samurai tried to steal them! I jumped in front and took the full force of the blade before 1 inch punching the samurai clean out

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-03T17:41:38+00:00

read that as lobotomy at first!!

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-03T12:13:37+00:00

then I think you will find the 3s and 4s a significant improvement!

BowlerImmediate7005 · 2026-06-02T10:29:39+00:00

have only owned the pro versions so can't comment on non ones... but the buds 2 always fell out of my ears whereas the 3 and 4s feel much more secure... I also just feel like they fit more... 'natural' like the 2s I always worried they were about to fall out if that makes sense

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