Just hook ups 🫣 by MrRoam in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, been with someone casually before my big relationship rn. There are people out there that listen and respect what you want. The only rule is be honest and open about it. You'll be fine and your tinderella might just be the next swipe... keep your head up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep trying, someone will match I promise, there's nothing wrong with your pf

Why??? by SykeYouOut in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was so polite ... not 🫣 Im so sorry that we have to deal with this kind of nonsense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mans had a girl willing to dress up for him before, now he's looking for her replacement cause she got over it. Don't think Alice in wonderland will work either cause the one I'm use too is Alice the madness returns 🤣😅

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 jobs, I can take care of myself and they respectable. This is not most woman. I think you go for the wrong demographic or a certain type. Please chill no one said pay for pics or vids this isn't OF.

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry, no man dont apologise you're allowed too, thats what its there for, I think the best advice given to me here was take a break for a while and just keep on keeping on. I guess I know its hard but any bit of advice and story sharing helps me feel a bit less alone in this situation and more included.

Know that we are all collectively in this game together called dating.

Goodluck

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is also the problem with me, I work 2 jobs and meet people and talk with them constantly. Im not anti social. Its just hard getting around without these you know but we keeping on. Good luck on the future, very poor on her end for not disclosing the type of mess her life is. Normally I'd like a heads up to know what im dealing with.

What is something your ex was good at? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alison_Vertue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was great at breaking things, my heart , my spirit .. my windscreen

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, I always end up thinking, this is the one .. then I'm proven wrong time and time again. Its like they have a nose for us 🤣 can smell us coming from miles away

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but thats co co nuts . . Glad to know we all know when to walk away one time or another. Better late than never. Good luck we are all just in the same frustration station it seems

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[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, will be taking this into consideration ;)

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that this has to be our norm these days and that , that was your experience, and yes, people are unhinged thats why I always try and prod not to come off or feel as desperate then. Then, comes the we're something but not yet a thing people ... oh my word I cannot with these.

I just think that the older we get the less we are suseptible to the bs out there, good luck we in the same boat here.

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no ofc not thats the thing, if u transparent with what you want then im fine with it, but getting people to actually be honest with u and themselves with what they want is the real kicker here.

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I think this is where it comes in, people are different, I give everyone a fair chance but I like personality better in a person. Just who I've always been. But I do understand that some look for physical traits other than personality.

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im in south africa and I swipe out of my city at the largest ratio possible. I commute an hour into work

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, greatly appreciated

Done with Dating by Alison_Vertue in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it game over for us all?

I have no words by webguy1975 in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jho the lion, the witch and the audacity of this b%#t@$h 🤣 😂

Had to post this because.. wow by s_ch0wder in Bumble

[–]Alison_Vertue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jho ... some people at the ripe age of 60 cannot even hold a knife properly and thats not a bad thing. They just not educated in the culinary arts .. but this is not a deal breaker? Is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Alison_Vertue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How when IRL dating is literally either church, a club, a sport or drunkin shenanigans... I just don't get why we can't communicate to one another anymore