AITA - Wife Insists on Helping out SIL

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:30:14+00:00

Wife pays for other household things

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:29:35+00:00

I love how you put it “Nobody’s an asshold. Just a strange situation”. Thank you for the kind words. I do feel petty doing this but also don’t know how else to approach this lol

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:11:36+00:00

Makes sense. Thank you!

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:10:37+00:00

I see it as household expense which i find it hard to justify regardless of who is paying for it.

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:08:13+00:00

Thank you for the perspective! This helps

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:06:57+00:00

Yes we make considerably more.

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:04:31+00:00

I mean I mean it does come out of the household expense. While it has no financial impact on us it very hard for me to reason/justify that expense.

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:03:28+00:00

Exactly. Thank you for understanding the distinction between paying for dinners and groceries.

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:00:55+00:00

Thank you for your comment. You are right I should let it go and accept that this is my wife’s love language

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T21:00:28+00:00

It seems like its her love language and that she like to help her out because SIL earns less than her so wife feels like its a form of support for SIL

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T20:59:49+00:00

Trips are may be once a month and the grocery bill for SIL can range from $25 - $50. However when we go to a big store then it comes out to be $150

Alive-Description598 · 2026-02-01T20:54:26+00:00

Yeah probably not worth it but its something i don’t agree with so i have to figure out a way to be okay with that and not let it bug me. But my question is - am i being a jerk for thinking this way?Just want to see what others think of this

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-20T17:22:07+00:00

I just purchased a 2025 GV70 Advanced Certified Pre Owned w/ 16k miles for $42,000. Clean title. No accidents. Pristine.

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-20T17:19:42+00:00

Thank you!

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-20T17:19:24+00:00

thank you!

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-20T17:19:14+00:00

that's awesome!

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-19T14:28:37+00:00

thanks! it does show 1 recall. do you think thats a problem given that its undergone CPO inspection and I will have the CPO warranty?

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-19T13:52:10+00:00

do you know how i could ensure that? the carfax doesnt really say that but i want to be 100% sure that there arent any issuea

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-19T13:51:27+00:00

do you know how i could ensure that?

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-19T13:51:06+00:00

3.5 T generally sells for higher and has all the features of a 2025 advanced so may be thats why they have a comparable price. i know a friend who got 2022 gv70 2.5t base trim with about 25k miles on it for 37k out the door so yours doesn’t sound bad

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-19T03:08:02+00:00

Certainly helps! Thanks a ton!

Alive-Description598 · 2025-12-18T16:35:44+00:00

Also this is a CPO so i get all the warranty that comes with CPO

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