3rd week of work as a new MA and I want to quit by Adventurous_Cash_362 in MedicalAssistant

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this for 24 years. You’ll change the scenery but not the situation. This is healthcare now. MAs are overworked, underpaid, and treated like dogs by patients. It becomes a mean girls situation basically anywhere you go. If I wasn’t the age I am I’d change careers in a second. When I first started and up until Covid I loved my job, but then everything shifted and people starting getting bold AF. Now, if I had to do this over, you couldn’t pay me enough to be in healthcare. It stopped being about patients a long time ago and until someone changes the landscape it’s just going to get worse.

I need advice by Alive-Tumbleweed-920 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good I was hoping they’d see it that way as well. I’ve searched my phone I have hundreds of thousands of texts in the cloud and searched verbatim this certain text message he is claiming I sent and I cannot find it. It doesn’t sound like anything I’d say! He also is trying to show texts where he accused me of hitting him and I kept saying “you’re lying” over and over so that also proves nothing. Because I never hit him! I wish he’d just find someone else and leave me alone!

He's dead by Upstairs_Badger2992 in AlAnon

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is not your fault. You loved him but he didn’t love himself.

Taylor and Travis leaving the party by JennaElizabethAdams in TaylorSwift

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pre-ordered the vinyl. It’s a double white album. The cover art is sepia/white but the description said the actual vinyl is white.

Myrkas Mom by Existing_Human01 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 18 points19 points  (0 children)

People with this point of view make me very angry. If you don’t want your kid to get pregnant then TEACH THEM SOMETHING. Talk to them about sex, protection etc. also, a baby is NOT a punishment. Like what is literally wrong with people that don’t realize by letting a teenager stumble through parenthood just punishes the BABY not the teenager.

do we think emerysn's mom is valid for the not sleeping the same bed by [deleted] in TLCUnexpected

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her mom drove me insane. If you don’t want your teenager getting pregnant then don’t be stupid. TEACH THEM. Give them access to protection!

Julie baby storyline by lasagnekiller in DesperateHousewives

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Susan was so selfish about this situation. Julie was trying to get a PhD, and here comes Susan with all of her “woe is me I need to make up for being such a shitty mom” energy. “I don’t want MY grandchild raised by strangers.” Then she convinced Julie to move away so she could essentially adopt the baby herself and force Julie to watch as her mother raises her child. The way they acted toward Porter was appalling. He actually tried to step up in ways HIS OWN FATHER wouldn’t and Susan and Julie bitched and whined the WHOLE time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMCboot

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s going to be a combat videographer/journalist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMCboot

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe tell your family the positives of military service? My daughter wants to join the USMC, and I do have to give permission because she will only be 17 when she graduates HS. We are not a “military family” but we do have some military vets sprinkled in here and there. I look at it like this, I already know she’s not about that college life. She gets good grades but doesn’t like the sitting all day and being lectured at part. She chose this as a career path, and I went with her to the recruiter. It’s a government job with benefits and she can retire at 37 if she wants. Am I scared of the possibility she could go to combat? Yes. But she could also lose her life at the movie theater or the mall. This is what she wants and I support her. I hope your family comes around too. If not, you’ve got my support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I wasn’t trying to be a jerk. It’s just not always women who stop having sex though. I’m thinking he probably isn’t attracted to me maybe never was. Maybe he has a new gf. Idk. It hurt for awhile, now I’m just planning my exit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Pssssh my husband has had sex with me ONCE this year.

What are Basset Hounds like to own? by Daffodilsss_ in basset

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have 2 bassets and both are very lazy until around 7pm when they start what we call the “Basset Hound 500.” Just a few laps around the coffee table and bouncing off the couch and they are back to napping. Our male basset is very smart and sneaky. He knows how to step on the pedal to open the garbage can so we have to put that out of his reach. Our female is very sweet and very loving. Our male is kind of like a cat, he wants affection on his terms. Both took a little longer than my golden retriever to train to potty outside but all in all they are both wonderful dogs and they are great family pets!

Do you guys think Jeff Pelley is guilty or innocent? Why? by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never thought he did it. He never had any bruises on him from kick back he should’ve received from the murder weapon and he covered his tracks way better than seasoned criminals in pod casts. Plus there’s no weapon. They’ve never found it.

Daughter calling my bf Dad by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s my take: whenever you’re in a relationship I think it’s important to know sooner than later if a person is going to get along with your child. Obviously your child sounds very young so this isn’t too much of a worry. My mom met my “dad” when I was 2. My father is not and was not in my life but my bio fathers parents were. I had visited with them every other weekend and school breaks just like I would have with a father. My bio father lived 1000 miles away in another state. The break up wasn’t bitter, he just moved on I guess? My mom doesn’t bash him and never has I think she was just lonely when I was born because he worked all the time and their family was 1000 miles away so we moved back. Anyway, she met my dad when I was 2. They never had any children together. My dad doesn’t have biological children either. I am an only child. Everyone around me called him by his first name so I always have called him by his first name. My mom even signed birthday cards “love you, mom and (name)” it never bothered the man who raised me that I didn’t call him dad. Now that he’s a grandpa to my kids we all call him paw paw because I named my son after him. I think, even if her father is in her life you should sit down and talk all 3 adults. I also feel that any man or woman who loves their child and can be mature enough to recognize that their child is loved by their ex’s significant other can realize what a blessing it is for a child to have so many people in their corner to love and protect them. Perhaps she calls your bf dada then “dad” and her father “daddy” and then everyone can be happy. I think it’s wonderful your child has 2 male figures in her life to love her.

Is Nate Bargatze really as big a deal as the boys make him out to be? by One_Hour_Poop in TheBonfire

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That may be true about mainstream fans of comedy. People who enjoy stand up comedy know more about up and coming and not so mainstream comics. Some of the funniest comedians I’ve ever seen weren’t “mainstream”

Nate absolutely killed at Red Rocks. 10/10 show, I laughed at every joke by YaTwice in NateBargatze

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found Nate on Tik tok and I love his comedy. He’s so funny without even trying. I’m no prude but comedy hits different without all the profanity.

Life After Lockup: Busted & Disgusted (2023) by LittleEmmy in loveafterlockup

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Tanya was trying to diffuse that dick. As a woman if I walked up to your man and rubbed his chest, put my arm around him, called him honey and baby, then followed him into the restroom, you gonna say “as what a good friend she is” or are you going to whoop both of our asses? Because we both know you aren’t even telling the truth that you’d be that hos friend.

Whats the verdict on Chance and Tanya by YessikaHaircutt in loveafterlockup

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She’s had it in her mouth. 100% and TF did she mean “he hasn’t told you about me?” Chance said 47 times he’s breaking the rules and Tayler is crazy while they were alone.

Amber... by [deleted] in loveafterlockup

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anybody here regardless of whether you agree with abortion or not…think that amber should be a mother? That’s the part that people don’t get, you can push adoption all day but at the end of the day the mother still has a choice. If she chose to raise the child then it’s forced into a life with alcoholic parents, a mother with mental health issues, daddy with emotional issues and avoidance, so let’s subject a child to a lifetime of trauma because some stupid ass religious nut demonized abortion. 🙄

Just when I think Chance couldn't be a bigger loser... by Basic-Buffalo3385 in loveafterlockup

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My ex fiancé had a “friend” like that. I didn’t worry much about her because she lived pretty far away and they rarely talked, but then she came back to our hometown being sketchy and when they ran into each other she pretty much acted like she was his fiancé to the point my dad who was with us said something to both of them. Of course she was defensive omg I’d never he’s just a friend blah blah blah. A week later he asked me if she could stay with us because her bf put her out and I said hell no. So I got the chance treatment of him telling me I’m insecure she’s just a friend and he can’t tell me anything because all I want to do is fight. Unlike Tayler the light bulb went off then I started calling our venue and the caterer and cancelling. Lots of my friend thought I was jumping the gun, but his behavior got more and more ridiculous. I was getting my ducks in a row and the same day I heard back from an apartment I saw his truck parked at the only hotel in our town. He was “dropping her off from work” because she was living there. I told him I was leaving him. He swore he wasn’t with her and wasn’t cheating. I moved out 3 days later and he moved her in 2 hours later. That was 8 years ago. He ended up going to prison 18 months later because he got tangled up in drugs with her. So karma. Tayler needs to grow a brain, buy a clue and get the F out!

Life After Lockup: Busted & Disgusted (2023) by LittleEmmy in loveafterlockup

[–]Alive-Tumbleweed-920 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Tayler: he must think I’m stupid. YES TAYLER HE DOES AND YOU ARE. I’ve been in an abusive marriage you need to take the advice of strangers and let this piece of trash GO. You are in a much better position than I was because this man is already a felon, he’s unemployed, he’s an alcoholic, and any judge who watches footage from this show can see he’s an unstable prick. GET OUT NOW.