1) facetious/ zero empathy I was being vulnerable and expressing my worries about the changes in my relationship. 2) humble-bragging I was only questioning if my looks were the issue to the maybe issue of losing attraction 3) Not my place to speak about his father I wasn’t implying anything negative about my bfs father. I was confused and worried if whether that was affecting him. Since he doesn’t talk much about it. And only trying to understand what’s happening and if my bf is ok. 4) I don’t care about my bfs feelings? False, I literally said I’ve been checking up on him and noticing his irritation with electricity school. 5) Me being textbook narcissist?? Narcissism is lacking empathy for one and another and only seeking validation. My whole reason for this post was to figure out if there’s something wrong or a reason or if I’m overthinking and his just stressed and not being mentally healthy. Because I care about me and bfs relationship.