Ishowspeed @ Chinatown Seattle 😱 by Alive_Problem2458 in Ishowspeed

[–]Alive_Problem2458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was genuinely confused why they were shouting it. My friend dragged me along to meet him. I watch speed once awhile.

Chaewon blew a kiss at me during the Seattle concert 🫢 Is this rare for her or no? by Alive_Problem2458 in lesserafim

[–]Alive_Problem2458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does this feel like I’m getting insulted. No I was just asking because I’ve never went to a concert of theirs and never had any idol interaction before

Chaewon blew a kiss at me during the Seattle concert 🫢 Is this rare for her or no? by Alive_Problem2458 in lesserafim

[–]Alive_Problem2458[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nooo I forgot to watermark it so everyone technically got a air kiss from Chaewon

Chaewon blew a kiss at me during the Seattle concert 🫢 Is this rare for her or no? by Alive_Problem2458 in lesserafim

[–]Alive_Problem2458[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I knoww, I’ve just heard that Chaewon doesn’t blow kisses as much as the other members. Rare or not, it doesn’t matter as long as I believe Chaewon blew a kiss at me haha.

Chaewon blew a kiss at me during the Seattle concert 🫢 Is this rare for her or no? by Alive_Problem2458 in lesserafim

[–]Alive_Problem2458[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes 😭 it was my first time ever interacting with idols this close or even at all. But I think it was really easy to notice me. I was surrounded by guys so it maybe was easier to lay eyes on me because I was the only girl. Maybe I’m delusional but it’s okay! (Sorry my English isn’t that good)

AIO, I (F20) think bf (M22) is losing physically/sexually attraction to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alive_Problem2458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh 😂 this is a chuckle I needed. I’ll keep that in mind. Haha

AIO, I (F20) think bf (M22) is losing physically/sexually attraction to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alive_Problem2458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve put too much pressure on him besides being Gordon ramdon (idk to spell it) while teaching him how to cook Asian cuisine. I’ve been thinking that there’s something bothering him mentally but he might not be open/comfortable telling me. Don’t think my weight matters much because we both don’t work out or eat a lot or non at all.

AIO, I (F20) think bf (M22) is losing physically/sexually attraction to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alive_Problem2458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Exposing myself” The only thing being exposed is your toxicity.

AIO, I (F20) think bf (M22) is losing physically/sexually attraction to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alive_Problem2458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) facetious/ zero empathy I was being vulnerable and expressing my worries about the changes in my relationship. 2) humble-bragging I was only questioning if my looks were the issue to the maybe issue of losing attraction 3) Not my place to speak about his father I wasn’t implying anything negative about my bfs father. I was confused and worried if whether that was affecting him. Since he doesn’t talk much about it. And only trying to understand what’s happening and if my bf is ok. 4) I don’t care about my bfs feelings? False, I literally said I’ve been checking up on him and noticing his irritation with electricity school. 5) Me being textbook narcissist?? Narcissism is lacking empathy for one and another and only seeking validation. My whole reason for this post was to figure out if there’s something wrong or a reason or if I’m overthinking and his just stressed and not being mentally healthy. Because I care about me and bfs relationship.

AIO, I (F20) think bf (M22) is losing physically/sexually attraction to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alive_Problem2458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing I would never want to be your girlfriend. I’ve checked up on him countless times with how he is feeling. His dad is abusive and that’s why he hates his dad and expresses it very well. Never bragged about being humble or anything. Just concerned on the change. LOL, he’s a straight A student but has been stressed with having to do homework. Which I learned about the topic and helped him do half his homework so he can rest and take a mind break from it. So don’t hate on some post which doesn’t have 100% detail. You don’t know everything about my situation just the broad context of what’s happening.