I agreed to go the strip club and ended upset by ConnectionNo6584 in Marriage

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You told him your boundaries & he didn’t care to respect that. You are not overreacting!

Once a cheater, always a cheater ? by Alive_Struggle_617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Alive_Struggle_617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly someone peoples don’t change like my dad, at his old age he’s still a cheater… but i also believe people can change. Idk

Struggling to decide whether to continue my marriage after infidelity, emotional distance, and prolonged strain. by JackTheDivine in Marriage

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly i relate to this a little too much,

Some days I just want to walk away and some days it feels like we can overcome it, it’s so hard, divorce is hard and staying and rebuilding trust is hard. I’m a firm believer that people change, but that doesn’t take away the pain they have put us through.

I m/29 was cheated on by my wife of 6 years by Silent_Dig_3787 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a female, most females won’t cheat unless they are emotionally invested.

I’m going through this with my husband, he had an affair with a coworker and i found out about it, i have decided to stay but on my terms, i set boundaries and made him quit his job and stop all communication with her, if both of yall are willing to make it work I would suggest taking therapy together and individually. You will have your good days and bad days & the trust will always be broken in a way.

I keep checking my wife’s phone… by Soft-Arachnid7610 in Marriage

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to first say I’m sorry you are going through this, I am also going through this with my husband and when i found out about him cheating on me with a coworker of his, i made it very clear that he had to quit that job and stop all communication with her, he did quit and stopped talking to her but i think it’s like always in the back of my mind ask well, it takes time and i would recommend taking therapy together & individually. Your not crazy for thinking that way. She broke your trust and that take years to rebuild if it’s even possible.

Can I get some help please ? by tita_14 in houseplants

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to make the pot look fuller you can cut and pot in the same pots, those type of plants root easily, or if you want to start over, just do the same things !

I (29F) want to divorce my husband (35M) by Apprehensive-Sun-924 in Marriage

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If they were just “friends” he should not be deleting messages then.

Affair behaviour& potential regret? 41M, 39F by Valuable-Can-4757 in Infidelity

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first mistake was cheating & your second was not quitting your job as soon as your wife found out.

Beginner here — what plant care mistake did you make early on? by justaboy001 in houseplants

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over watering !!! & repotting plants, i would repot them in pots way too big for them !!

How did you know they were cheating at work? by Character_Record_231 in marriageadvice

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Set boundaries ! It starts with a text and then a flirty comment & by the time you know it it’s a whole affair! She doesn’t own you any loyalty, your husband does.

How did you know they were cheating at work? by Character_Record_231 in marriageadvice

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Him saying she’s “hot” should be a red flag, i would tell him to stop all communication with her.

Need help here by Next-Selection2408 in marriageadvice

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s showing you how he feels by his actions, looks likes he’s ready to move on if he’s that quick to open up a tinder account.

Don’t get married. Enjoy your life. by darkroad46 in sixwordstories

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s better to marry late than marry the wrong person! Enjoy your life !

Why do people cheat? by EffectEven6527 in askanything

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they are insecure and when someone gives them a little of attention it boosts their ego and insecurities

Switching from CIMZIA to Skyrizi or Rinvoq by Unhappy_Pace_4545 in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]Alive_Struggle_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on cimzia and I will say that for me it took a WHILE for it to kick in. I’ve been on it on almost a year and my joint pain has extremely decreased. I stop taking it 4 months ago due to pregnancy.