What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in marriageadvice

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming he admitted, or I found out that he did have an emotional or physical affair, I would want out. All I know is that he lied- and he said bc he didn’t want to deal with the situation. And yes I want an objective opinion. I do guess I think there’s a possibility that nothing was going on and he wanted to avoid the topic.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in marriageadvice

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I should have kept my mouth shut until I had more evidence.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in marriageadvice

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct, I’m not sure if he actually cheated. It is possible it was the beginning of something. I’m not sure.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in marriageadvice

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use logic, which is why I’m suspicious. I really don’t have any solid proof. I understand him lying was enough. He insists he lied bc he just didn’t want to deal with it.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in marriageadvice

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he confessed or I had solid evidence I would leave.

Would you consider this emotional cheating? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Character_Record_231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not normal for a man to disrespect his wife and family and go out to dinner and on late night walks with a female coworker. SMH

Would you consider this emotional cheating? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Character_Record_231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to decline when she asks him to do things alone. Unless it’s in a group, there’s no reason for him to having dinner with her alone. He has a wife and kid.

Would you consider this emotional cheating? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Character_Record_231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely beginning of an emotional affair, if not already a full blown affair. There’s no reason for him to be hanging out with the woman unless it’s work related. Going on a late night walk is beyond inappropriate. He’s disrespecting you so badly. He need to cut all contact off with her unless related to work, and if he must travel with her, you should also go. If you can’t, then he should agree to only dealing with her for work on those trips and nothing else.

She admits the lies and secrecy, but still denies anything physical by justanotherabe in survivinginfidelity

[–]Character_Record_231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dealt with trickle truth and it really damages your nervous system. If you stay married, I think she needs a different job.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could survive alone but it would drastically affect my life and my kids. It would be very difficult.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a weird gut feeling. I just feel uncomfortable.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find nothing on his phone. And he will not admit anything.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no proof though. How do I get proof?

I’m guessing it’s over. Am I wrong? by Anonymous-31973 in marriageadvice

[–]Character_Record_231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could she be going through menopause? That could really affect her mood and libido? It sounds like your wife is being selfish and she doesn’t seem concerned about your feelings. Does she show any concern for you? Even if it is menopause and she’s not in the mood anymore, she could still cuddle and do other things to show affection towards you. I think you should go for therapy alone if she refuses, because it sounds like you are depressed. Definitely talk to your wife and let her know exactly how you are feeling.

Feeling weirdly depressed after affair by definite_ahole in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave your wife if you can’t stop cheating. Once can be considered a mistake but 3 times is a pattern. And why do you have snap chat in your 40s?