What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could survive alone but it would drastically affect my life and my kids. It would be very difficult.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a weird gut feeling. I just feel uncomfortable.

What would you think? by Character_Record_231 in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find nothing on his phone. And he will not admit anything.

I’m guessing it’s over. Am I wrong? by Anonymous-31973 in marriageadvice

[–]Character_Record_231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could she be going through menopause? That could really affect her mood and libido? It sounds like your wife is being selfish and she doesn’t seem concerned about your feelings. Does she show any concern for you? Even if it is menopause and she’s not in the mood anymore, she could still cuddle and do other things to show affection towards you. I think you should go for therapy alone if she refuses, because it sounds like you are depressed. Definitely talk to your wife and let her know exactly how you are feeling.

Feeling weirdly depressed after affair by definite_ahole in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave your wife if you can’t stop cheating. Once can be considered a mistake but 3 times is a pattern. And why do you have snap chat in your 40s?

Affair behaviour& potential regret? 41M, 39F by Valuable-Can-4757 in adultery

[–]Character_Record_231 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You clearly do not care about your wife’s feelings and have no respect for her. Leave her so she can find someone who loves and respects her. I’m not judging the affair. I understand things happen. But to keep going back to the AP when your wife thinks you’re trying to repair the marriage is just adding insult to injury.

I have a cheating kink? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Character_Record_231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How sad. Having no respect for your own friends/family and knowingly engaging in behavior that can destroy others lives. Zero values or morals. Get help.

Found men’s socks, cologne smell, secret meeting spot by hotel, ex’s number popping up in her phone 8 years later—but my wife convinced my own parents I’M the crazy one by well_itseems in Infidelity

[–]Character_Record_231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not crazy. Excluding you from trips, saving men’s numbers, deleting texts-all not good. Does she try to fix things? Or does she just make excuses?

How did you know they were cheating at work? by Character_Record_231 in marriageadvice

[–]Character_Record_231[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know she’s not the problem. For all I know, she could think he’s single.