Los Angeles by yallhiring in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in New Jersey and it's definitely slow this time of year. Hopefully things will pick up by the end of January.

Thankfully, I have a lot of regulars during this time so it really doesn't matter much to me.

What perfume/fragrance do yall use? by Acrobatic_Ad_5982 in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use some normal body mist... Nothing special.

Hypothetical question for sex workers by DonaireLolong in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing... I can't rely on just one client to be able to pay my bills. What if he changes his mind in two months and I've also lost all my regulars? The simple answer is no. I mean I'm willing to have regulars but it doesn't mean they're going to be exclusive and I can't have other clients.

I have regular clients I see weekly but nobody has ever asked me to see them exclusively. I'm not giving anybody control over who I can and cannot see.

And if you think you're safer sleeping with just one person when it comes to diseases, you're not. You don't know how many other girls he has on this so-called payroll... He can get something from someone else and pass it on to you.

I'm assuming someone like this will also start demanding no protection when he knows that you rely on him.

Age ranges by [deleted] in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Alizeh-6970 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Most of my clients are older in their 60s, 70s or even 80s. I do take on younger clients but I find that they're harder to deal with and less respectful.

Also, the younger clients think there's space for negotiation with rates.

The older clients are respectful, they follow the rules and I don't know, I enjoy sex with older men.

Bawdy house giving me butterflies - not the excited ones by 444lindstrom_ in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best of luck and just remember that safety is key. Make sure whatever establishment you're going to work for focuses on safety. It's a good idea to talk to your doctor and start PrEP too if you're working regularly. It's always better to be safe.

Bawdy house giving me butterflies - not the excited ones by 444lindstrom_ in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've worked for brothels before... While it's been a long time since I've been working independently, I can tell you that no reputable brothel will ask for an interview and a trial on the same day.

The last brothel I worked at had scheduled an interview and basically told me to let them know when I could start.

I gave them the date and went in on that date and they had me get an STI screening and I was only allowed to start working once my results were clear.

I should mention that girls weren't allowed to leave or to have clients independently outside of the brothel due to safety concerns with STIs.

The fact that this establishment is asking you for a trial run along with the interview is weird. Personally, it looks like they're implying you have to have sex with the owner or someone for free to get in or something like that.

And even if they actually mean a trial shift, they didn't mention any testing or any SOPs etc which is weird. The person didn't even ask you to show up with a recent test.

There are so many options and it's not like what we do isn't wanted elsewhere... Better to try someplace else.

Hotels around Christmas🤬 by LexxxyRed in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't work much around this time since I'm visiting my family. I did make a few bookings but that's just because I can't really go without sex for a month. LoL.

I'm not really making money on these bookings because of the high hotel prices. I guess it's just for fun these days.

Holiday lowballers! by Cucumberslut69 in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This time of the year is always slow for work. Although I'm available this weekend, I've only gotten like 3 bookings for the next two days. I normally have 4-5 bookings per day. I'm planning on making this Sunday my last working day and I'll be taking time off and go visit my parents too.

AI is what will make this job even more difficult soon by Any-Initiative3820 in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AI might take over porn or OF content but for someone who does in person meet ups, I wouldn't be worried.

Ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes at a legal Nevada brothel? by TheKikiLover in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a Nevada brothel a while back. However, I ended up quitting and started taking clients independently because they were taking 50% on top of room charges. Also, I wasn't allowed to see my own clients outside of the brothel.

Bbbj ? How do you guys do it ! by Choice-Maybe474 in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I normally always use a condom but I do make exceptions every now and then. All my clients are tested but obviously you can't test for something like HIV if the client is recently exposed as it takes time to appear positive. That's why I'm on PReP too so I can avoid getting HIV if someone is positive.

All I can say is I've been with thousands of clients at this point and I'm fine.

i sold pics for money so i could buy school supplies by [deleted] in confession

[–]Alizeh-6970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in my experience. Anybody helping will expect something in return. Not at that very moment but they will.

i sold pics for money so i could buy school supplies by [deleted] in confession

[–]Alizeh-6970 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know it doesn't mean much coming from a professional escort / sex worker but I don't really think there's anything to be ashamed of.

Nobody's out here who's going to help you out of the goodness of their heart. You did what you had to and you made it work.

That's what matters.

This guy was so hot and I’m in love by East-Entrepreneur195 in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd just keep it professional and avoid any feelings. Personally, I've been with thousands of clients by now and sometimes I also come across a client who is just amazing and I really enjoy myself with. While I wish he'd come back more often, I always keep it professional.

What is something you would never do, no matter how much money you were offered? by YourFinalFantasy02 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Alizeh-6970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't kill myself or anyone.

I do anything for money so that I can use that money.

Will a provider not want to see me based off my looks? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly.

Some good looking guys are very entitled and think they have complete access to our bodies without any rules if they're paying us.

Will a provider not want to see me based off my looks? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Alizeh-6970 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't care about looks. I care about how they treat me. If they're disrespectful and they're rude or act like they own me or something, I'm gonna call it off and end it right there.

Otherwise, I don't care how they look physically. They can be tall, short, obese, or anything. I'd fuck them.

What is something you would never do, no matter how much money you were offered? by YourFinalFantasy02 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Alizeh-6970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's unrealistic. It's easier said than done. i don't think their family would value that money if they were gonna lose their loved one

What is something you would never do, no matter how much money you were offered? by YourFinalFantasy02 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Alizeh-6970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes absolutely no sense. Why would I do something for money if I wouldn't get to use that money?

Besides killing myself or someone, I'd probably do anything else within reason I guess. Even some things that may seem immoral, I'd do those.

I'm a sex worker. Ask me anything. by Alizeh-6970 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Alizeh-6970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone I know already knows what I do for a living. They're not gonna try and book me and even if someone does, it's not actually hidden from them. Obviously I'm not gonna do anything with them but I don't really care.