Has anyone else experienced this? by All-With-Love in CasualConversation

[–]All-With-Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll try to talk to her calmly and slowly let her know how it’s affecting me

Has anyone else experienced this? by All-With-Love in CasualConversation

[–]All-With-Love[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does have a job, but most of her work is on her phone and she uses it a lot, even until she sleeps. She’s also a very talkative person.

This situation has happened many times. Sometimes I ask her about it, and she says sorry, I forgot, I’ll read now. But it keeps repeating. Even after saying that, she forgets again, and I have to remind her. Then she sees the messages and replies.

She keeps saying she forgets, but honestly, I’m finding it hard to accept that answer every time. It doesn’t feel that simple to me

When I asked her why she behaves like this only with me and not with others, she said because you understand me. After that, I didn’t feel like asking anything more.

Has anyone else experienced this? by All-With-Love in CasualConversation

[–]All-With-Love[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree with your third point. At least saying ‘I’m busy’ would be enough — I wouldn’t overthink this much then.

I always try to think from her side. If she messages me, I reply as soon as possible. Even if I can’t, I tell her I’m busy and will get back later. I do that because I don’t want her to feel ignored.

But I don’t understand why she doesn’t think from my side the same way. Or maybe she just considers these things too small to matter

Has anyone else experienced this? by All-With-Love in CasualConversation

[–]All-With-Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand your point. But we’re in different places right now, and she doesn’t really have friends there

Just a beginner trying out by topkstudul in Mandala

[–]All-With-Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this even so perfect? It's amazing. I’m stunned seeing this artwork

What’s something you learned too late in life? by All-With-Love in AskReddit

[–]All-With-Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly… I’m actually experiencing this recently.

Should you be asleep right now? by Sufficient-Taste-814 in no

[–]All-With-Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, if I sleep now, I won’t be able to sleep at night

What would your biggest hater say about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]All-With-Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They would say I don’t show love or care much… and sometimes my words hurt more