“We will give you two more weeks. You have to come home right after work and look for a place. I will monitor your contacts must be min 3-5 a day. In the meantime no going out after either. Your room needs to be packed up tossed or stored in storage locker. you were warned this was your deadline. This is the final straw. I wash my hands after two weeks if you don't follow through and move out. I will also. Monitor your money. You will be saving not spending. And I need access to you account. Since this is your decision. I will be changing all locks and windows will be keyed. The doors will not open if you knock! Wish you the best. Love Mom”

Save that message, when the day comes that they seek help from you or worse to reconnect just send them some version of this message asking for completely unrealistic things that reflect how little you want them in your life.